How often do you tell your partner you love them before bed?

Contributor: markeagleone markeagleone
Getting to know people and relationships
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Every night
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174  (96%)
Special occasions
After love making
A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
1  (1%)
After a fight
Crystalbabe
1  (1%)
Once in a while
markeagleone , Lio , AU , danellejohns , AYoungMan
5  (3%)
Never,they should know it
Only when they say it first
Total votes: 181
Poll is closed
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Contributor: markeagleone markeagleone
Quote:
Originally posted by markeagleone
Getting to know people and relationships
Honestly, I try to every night, but sometimes I forget or the opportunity passes me by.
01/29/2011
Contributor: Vaccinium Vaccinium
Always at least once.

Hey, I have to remind her why she keeps me around somehow.
01/29/2011
Contributor: Gallowraven Gallowraven
even though we have only been together a year and a half we both say I love you every night. and occasionally on just leaving the room. sappy? yes, but we both like it.
01/29/2011
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Every night and first thing in the morning as well.
01/29/2011
Contributor: Angel deSanguine Angel deSanguine
Quote:
Originally posted by Gallowraven
even though we have only been together a year and a half we both say I love you every night. and occasionally on just leaving the room. sappy? yes, but we both like it.
I don't think it's sappy. Love should be shared at any time and often.
01/29/2011
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
Morning and night, you can never have too many love proclamations
01/29/2011
Contributor: *HisMrs* *HisMrs*
Every night, first thing in the morning, every time we leave each other and sometimes just because.
01/29/2011
Contributor: Kitt Katt Kitt Katt
My husband and I have been married for 24 years and we still tell each other all the time that we love each other...morning, noon, night, and all the hours in between! I totally agree with txymxy...you can never say it too many times!
01/29/2011
Contributor: onehotmomma onehotmomma
Every night. We don't go to bed at the same time so we give hugs, kisses, I love you's before he goes to bed. He works at night, so he's in bed by 7
01/30/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Quote:
Originally posted by toxie m
Morning and night, you can never have too many love proclamations
Agreed. Even when he is away we say "good night" and "I love you" before bedtime via phone call or text.
01/30/2011
Contributor: Envy Envy
I try to as much as I can, my bf is better at remembering than I am, though.
01/30/2011
Contributor: KrissyRoro KrissyRoro
All the time !
01/30/2011
Contributor: Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
My husband tucks me in every night, and we always say "I Love You."
01/30/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
Almost every night. Sometimes one of us goes to bed before the other but usually we do. And again every morning when he leaves for work.
01/30/2011
Contributor: AU AU
I have always been funny about "I love you". It's complicated. If I say much about it, I will be seen as even more weird than I am here already. In short, I dislike it being something triggered by an event, almost mechanical. I like to say it when I feel very moved to. My partner really likes to say "I love you". I have to return it if he does, because I cannot answer any other way--because I do love him very much! I just don't care for the phrase? I like to say other things that tell how I feel. I express it at least once a day.
01/30/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
Quote:
Originally posted by markeagleone
Honestly, I try to every night, but sometimes I forget or the opportunity passes me by.
Yep, same here. We will say it whenever it pops into our heads, and I think that's really important. For me, it's just as important to hear "I love you" as it is for me to know I have the freedom to say it whenever I feel it. Love is meant to be shared!
01/30/2011
Contributor: Mr. E Mr. E
I tell her that I love her every night, every morning, every day, before work, after work....you get the picture.
01/30/2011
Contributor: Raggedy Andie Raggedy Andie
Every night and every time we talk on the phone....and sometimes in between.
01/30/2011
Contributor: AU AU
Quote:
Originally posted by AU
I have always been funny about "I love you". It's complicated. If I say much about it, I will be seen as even more weird than I am here already. In short, I dislike it being something triggered by an event, almost mechanical. I like ... more
God, I sound like a jerk. How about this? We often make kissy-kissy sounds? Like when I tuck Him in, when we are about to hang up on the phone. If other people hear it, they roll their eyes or the like.
01/30/2011
Contributor: Yoda Yoda
I say it and mean it every night.
01/30/2011
Contributor: SexyTabby SexyTabby
Quote:
Originally posted by Mr. E
I tell her that I love her every night, every morning, every day, before work, after work....you get the picture.
Seconding this one - we say I love you to each other a lot throughout the course of a day
01/30/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
Even when we're long distance, like now... it's "Hey baby, hope you have a good day at work, I love you."

Sometimes during lunch break, after work and before we both go to bed.
01/31/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
Quote:
Originally posted by AU
I have always been funny about "I love you". It's complicated. If I say much about it, I will be seen as even more weird than I am here already. In short, I dislike it being something triggered by an event, almost mechanical. I like ... more
I totally get what you mean. With another guy I was with, he'd say it over and over again until I said it, and it totally bugged me. I didn't wanna be rude and say no, but I really had no desire to say it. I don't want it to be mechanical like saying Bless you when somebody sneezes.
01/31/2011
Contributor: BadassFatass BadassFatass
I say it a lot, I admit it.
01/31/2011
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
every day and almost every night
01/31/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by markeagleone
Getting to know people and relationships
If I could I'd vote twice! You never know what could happen and you might not get the chance to tell your loved ones that you love them...I say it and demonstrate the depth of my love for my guys and my children as often as possible.
01/31/2011
Contributor: newlady newlady
Every night...and every morning... and usually in between too!
01/31/2011
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
I tell him so much, annoyingly so. I love and admire him so much. When he gets home fro mwork all I can do is devour him with my eyes, he finds it funny that I always have eyes for him like the same day we met for the first time.

Love is pretty powerful.

He only says it once in a while, he says that in order to say it you must mean it. He doesn't want to tell me he loves me when he doesn't freel the emotion of love welling inside his chest. But for me every moment is a great occasion to tell him how much he is loved.
01/31/2011
Contributor: Mlee Mlee
I tell my boyfriend every night that i love him because you never know when your last day is going to be
01/31/2011