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Originally posted by
Mlee
I always try to work out my problems with my boyfriend because you never know if that day is going to be your last and what the last thing you say to that person. I hate fighting with him but there is just sometimes it is not avoidable.
I agree! That is exactly what my partner always tells me. He always makes sure we resolve whatever we can which usually isn't anything big and we never stay mad. He says he couldn't forgive himself if I ended up dying or something and he was angry. He's usually good about apologizing when he's done something really hurtful like last week he said "fu** you" to me! He apologized thank God. He never does talk down to me or belittle me, but everyone can be hurtful at times.
We never just let something fester. We always take care of it right away. It will only make things worse if you leave hurt feelings alone and never revisit to make things right or even the simple things like a simple misunderstanding can really cause a great deal of pain and I've been there before, but if you just talk about it as soon as possible, it can be quickly fixed.
Usually we get over it and say I love you before an hour has passed. We always talk about hurt feelings and explain misunderstandings which is what most arguments are over.
