My boyfriend is really good about not saying I told you so. He always gives me good advice, but I tend to ignore it and do stupid things anyways. But he's still there to support me and doesn't rub it in.

My husband is really good about being supportive until enough time has passed and then I may get a playful "I told you so" from him. But I do the same thing too. Neither of us rub it in while the other is down because everything is a learning experience. We just deal with it, move on, then joke about it later.

Mine can and will be an ass, he will tell me I told you so. He can be hurtful and disrespectful at the same time. But he has his moments. I also can be a bitch and a bit nutty, so we forgive. It all works out before bed time, so it never last long. I do sometimes feel very angered, but I am not sure I would say poking an animal, but I do get what you are saying. For me that is a good time to go for a walk or take a shower, that way you get a cooling off period as well as them.

Eh it depends on the situation. Sometimes I deserve it, though. If I'm set that I'm right, he might do that, but I don't have any hard feelings about it because it is usually a situation where I really should have taken his advice and was too stubborn to lol.

Usually, he supports me. Sometimes he reminds me that he told me so, but we're both like that. We'd rather have blunt honesty than comforting lies. Typically I get a mix of comforting and advice for the future from him, and I typically give the same.

He would never say "I told you so" in a condscending way, and I think I've heard it only a handful of times in the many, many years we've been together. I'm usually way ahead of the game and I've weighed pros/cons and any foreseeable outcome that may have consequences down the line before I make decisions.

My boyfriend is very supportive and is always the one to comfort me. Even when I'm a total nut and a wreck he is always there.

I'd never use those exact words, but maybe something along those lines. Just think about what they mean before you say them, I'd suggest.

I have a family member who is extremely self centered and self righteous and has made many promises he will not keep. My husband said I would have problems with him and he would not follow through. I said, probably not, but I will give him the benefit of the doubt. The family member did not follow through, ok, but then in retalliation, he has been very derogatory toward my daughter and I, hateful and manipulative with other family member. I was ok with not following through, but NOBODY fucks with my kid!!!Especially when she did nothing to deserve it!!! Instead of finding out about the rest of the issue, my husband walked in from work and said, I told you so and I do not want to hear about it. When it is his issues, he expects me to drop everything and totally baby him.WTF???

Alot of the "I told you so" and then after im really wounded I get the support.