I would compromise...but he would never ask, he enjoys them as much as I.
If They Asked?
12/01/2012
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Yes I would
Originally posted by
Kaltir
If your partnered asked you to get rid of yours toys, would you? Feel free to elaborate.
12/02/2012
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I chose other. I am single right now and if I met someone and they wanted me to get rid of my toys, we would have a lot more problems than anyone would realize. I am a cam girl. So chances are if they wanted me to get rid of my toys they would want me to stop working. Also, I would never give up my sexual freedom for someone. That is the one thing that will always be mine. If they want me to give it up, they don't care enough about me. I might stop doing camming for someone. But if I get the need for an orgasm and they are not there.. I sure as hell am going to take care of it myself.
Originally posted by
Kaltir
If your partnered asked you to get rid of yours toys, would you? Feel free to elaborate.
12/02/2012
I would do anything he asked, but I know he would never ask
12/02/2012
If they had a good reason
12/02/2012
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I don't think I could ever get rid of my toys just because a partner asked me to unless that had a huge valid point. I am a woman who loves sex an if I can't have sex with a partner all the time I would at least like to have toys to help me get off when needed
Originally posted by
Kaltir
If your partnered asked you to get rid of yours toys, would you? Feel free to elaborate.
12/03/2012
I would never. Period.
12/03/2012
I'd try to make a compromise, but the reason they'd be asking might be a deal breaker.
12/03/2012
No way, if he had a problem with toys, I'd have a problem with HIM. I can't think of a legitimate reason why he would want me to get rid of them, he has toys of his own so he better not have a problem with mine! Plus I NEED a vibe to orgasm without great effort, no way would I let anyone tell me I don't have the right to have toys.
12/03/2012
compramise
12/04/2012
Some maybe. I prefer it being just him. He is less of the asking me to get rid of them and more of a buying me some type though.
12/04/2012
I guess it would depend on the reasoning behind the request although I don't think it would ever happen.
12/04/2012
I think my man enjoys using my toys on me more than I enjoy using them alone, so I doubt that'd ever be a concern. haha. But if he did, it'd depend on why he wanted me to.
12/04/2012
Oh man. I could give away quite a few. But my boy and I are long distance and I think he knows they are necessary to keep me sane!
12/15/2012
It would depend on why he was asking. If it was for personal reasons then I would want to talk to him to try and find a compromise. If it was due to space then I'd be more willing to consider moving some along (or throwing something else out so I could make room for my toys).
I don't think my guy will ever ask...but these things are new to him so we'll see.
I don't think my guy will ever ask...but these things are new to him so we'll see.
12/15/2012
My honey wouldn't ask... he's been urging me to get MORE toys! If for some reason he did ask, though, I'd talk to him about it and then figure out a compromise- not like I'd get rid of half and keep the other half, but more of an emotional compromise. He wouldn't ask if there wasn't some deep-down reason for it, and THAT is what is more important, regardless of the money I spent.
12/25/2012
Nope--they're mine, and I don't need permission to have them. If he had a problem with the things I enjoy, then that would indicate to me that we're not compatible, and I'd find a man who doesn't have hang ups or insecurities over sex toys.
Thankfully, I'm with a man who loves my toy collection and we share them, because I think they are ten times more fun to play with with a partner, and he enjoys my pleasure, in all the ways I'm able to feel it.
Thankfully, I'm with a man who loves my toy collection and we share them, because I think they are ten times more fun to play with with a partner, and he enjoys my pleasure, in all the ways I'm able to feel it.
12/25/2012
No, I wouldn't get rid of my toys but I would not use them in while I'm in his presence.
12/26/2012
I'd be floored if my man asked me to get rid of my toys...he has almost as many as me No way I'd get rid of all of them...compromise is key!
12/28/2012
For me it depends all on why but I'm erring more on the end of wtf, not a person I wanna be with.
Also, most of my toys are for both of us and aren't for masturbation so my situation is different in that sense.
Beyond the control and possession in that kind of request, it also would be the end to certain bdsm activities, and that's not okay with me. I need to have bdsm in my sex, or I will leave, and I've done it in the past. I just need that to be happy.
Also, most of my toys are for both of us and aren't for masturbation so my situation is different in that sense.
Beyond the control and possession in that kind of request, it also would be the end to certain bdsm activities, and that's not okay with me. I need to have bdsm in my sex, or I will leave, and I've done it in the past. I just need that to be happy.
12/31/2012
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This. I can't see my partner ever doing that though since he has toys as well lol!
Originally posted by
~LaUr3n~
It really would depend on their reason.
01/01/2013
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i wouldnt get rid of all of them. my sex drive is much much higher than his so to get rid of them would be torture.
Originally posted by
Kaltir
If your partnered asked you to get rid of yours toys, would you? Feel free to elaborate.
01/01/2013
Mine wouldn't ask...but I'd compromise or just say no.
01/01/2013
I'm not doing it. I would see this as them not caring if I orgasm and them being jealous. These are things that aren't my issue. They are the partners. They are the ones who need to figure things out. Not me.
01/01/2013
I would not be happy about that and would need a good reason why.
01/01/2013
They're just things (but I do enjoy them)
01/01/2013
Knowing my partner, he wouldn't ask me to get rid of all my toys without a good reason, and I value my relationship with him over my relationship with a box full of vibrating plastic. However, I would try to get to the reason behind his request, in case there was some underlying problem that wouldn't actually be solved by tossing out my favorite toys.
01/01/2013
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Sure I'd make a compromise, but I'll secretly hide them elsewhere.
Originally posted by
Kaltir
If your partnered asked you to get rid of yours toys, would you? Feel free to elaborate.
02/16/2013
I'd try to reason with them. If it's for a selfish reason, I'd have to have a talk with them.
02/16/2013
Thats a Big decsion to make! If i had to give up my toys she has to give up something as valuble.
05/02/2013