I know my boyfriend won't cheat on me and he tells me he won't. We've told each other we'd let the other know if we ever physically or emotionally cheat and had a discussion on what counted on cheating. So I know he won't cheat on me, I'm not worried about that but then why am I still so insecure? Why do I still worry if I don't think he's going to cheat? Any advice? Does anyone else feel like this?
Insecurity
05/19/2013
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i am just like you or at least i was. im not saying this to be mean or anything but just because you and your bf sat down and talked about cheating and he tells you that he wont.. it can still happen...im not saying that it will...just saying i believe that your still worried because in your mind you know that it could still happen.
05/21/2013
No matter what anyone ever says to you, no matter how genuine they seem, no matter how much you truly believe you can trust someone - none of it matters if you lack confidence.
You need to figure out what the root of the insecurities are. Is it because you feel unattractive? Have you been cheated on/hurt in the past? Have there been trust issues in your current relationship prior to now?
These things and more can be the true root of the problem. It probably doesn't have anything to do with him, but how you view yourself. Once you figure out what the root issue is, then it's time to take steps to improve the problem.
You need to figure out what the root of the insecurities are. Is it because you feel unattractive? Have you been cheated on/hurt in the past? Have there been trust issues in your current relationship prior to now?
These things and more can be the true root of the problem. It probably doesn't have anything to do with him, but how you view yourself. Once you figure out what the root issue is, then it's time to take steps to improve the problem.
05/21/2013
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