I've never had an opportunity to do it with no strings. No, take that back. I did have the chance, but passed it up. As for dating, I was always on my best behavior the first few dates.

Is that what you are asking ?

I think its an age and understanding thing...

The truth is now that I have some mileage on me, I have found when you find a good woman and you spend good time trying to learn her (and she has those same goals for you) you will go from sex to mind blowing sore the next day sex. (Nothing is better than going to work sore with scratch marks all over you... imo... yeah I get off on her digging her nails into my back.)

When you are in college and high school and for some in your early 20's in a guys mind its just completing the act. (hey!!! yay for me I got some!) When you get a bit older its not just completing the act its how well you complete the act. I am far from old but lets say I am just barely out of my 20's... If she doesn't cum I am not happy until she does and I will do anything I have to do to make her cum until she says enough. (Ladies lets be honest, some of you cant get off every single time)

I can't count all of the unsatisfied girls and I say girls referring to college high school and right after college I have ran into and spoken to. (Why... because girls date boys or guys not men) However when they get a man who knows how to perform what that lady needs its a whole different story.

Maturity really shows when it goes from I'm going to "bang her out" (That term just makes me sick) to I went out made a nice dinner, bought a nice Australian red cleaned up the house to a T before she got home and lit the fireplace so we could really put ourselves in the mood and see how far our bodies will allow us to go tonight before we pass out.

Young guys are just happy to get off, mature men enjoy watching their women get off. (Well thats my view on things.... I sure enjoy her getting off!I just love going down on her and having her hips start to buck uncontrollably to an orgasm and squirt just a little bit.... Its like her body is saying thank you, like its tasty reward)

Oh and last thing...

My new fun thing to do it put together little sex classes with the secretary... for me and for her with each other.

Where we leave the lights on and step by step we point out and instruct each other exactly where and how to make each other get off. For her we have been teaching me the finer points of the G-Spot and working on more than two multiples and for me... actually its been multiples for me but also fine tuning oral sex.

It seems silly... but when you make it educational but you still have an orgasm its fun BUT!!! When its one of those the kids are asleep the wine is poured and the candles are lit moments nobody has to say a word. Its VERY sexy.

$.02 More like $2.00 and some change