Not sure how common or not this is - but what makes me feel wanted is to have my partner initiate sexual activity more often - and not wait for me to do it. Also - plan something special. It can be something that you know he loves - or something that you love. If your guy is like me - I get as much (or more) pleasure from watching my wife explode in a huge orgasm - as having my own. Having you guide the action is a lesson for me on things I can do in the future.

If you've been married 20+ years like we have - you've got to get creative or things can get stale pretty quickly.

I always like the surprise kiss's with a little smerk or grin with it maybe a grab of my ass for no reason and when it comes to bedroom time just a general show of interest in my body during. Also just asking about what I want outa life and how I am doing makes me feel like my partner still remembers I am around lol

I like to do small things to let him know I think of him and appreciate him. A big hug and a thank you also goes a long ways in letting him know I appreciate him.

Everything Gunsmoke said and then some. I don't expect anything big and fancy, it's the little things that let me know. Like things that I sometimes hear her say about me when she's talking to a friend. Or when I'm trying to stay out of her way because I know she's busy, but she'll pause to give me a smile and a hug anyway. Or the times when she surprises me with a warm towel she heated for me in the dryer while I was in the shower alone. Stuff like that.

~A