Do you consider sexting with someone besides your partner cheating?

Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
Eh, I would get annoyed but considering it cheating? Probably not. I don't typically sext people anyway. If they did, and if they actually acted on it, we might have a problem then. But sexting alone isn't enough to be considered a form of infidelity, at least for me. But that applies to my relationships, I'm sure everyone else has their own set of standards and rules that may state otherwise. It just depends on who it is.
12/30/2011
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
It is cheating... Not as bad as committing a real sexual act with someone, but cheating nonetheless.
12/30/2011
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
I would because what are you looking for from sexting? Nothing that a friend should be giving.
12/30/2011
Contributor: Curiouscat Curiouscat
Yup cheating.
12/30/2011
Contributor: InnocentISwear InnocentISwear
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Originally posted by LostBoy988
Really depends. If there is an open relationship or communication between primary partners, then no, but if not,then yes.
I agree with this.
12/30/2011
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
I think it depends. If he knows about it and knows there's nothing more going on than text, I don't think it's that big of a deal, but it depends on the circumstances.
12/30/2011
Contributor: Mihoshi4301 Mihoshi4301
I would consider it cheating.
12/30/2011
Contributor: Undead Undead
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Originally posted by AngelvMaynard
Sexuality researchers Diane Kholos Wysocki, from the University of Nebraska at Kearney, and Cheryl Childers, from Washburn University in Topeka, Kansas, have been looking into infidelity on the internet and sexting (sending sexually explicit text ... more
Yes, it's cheating
01/01/2012
Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
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Originally posted by AngelvMaynard
Sexuality researchers Diane Kholos Wysocki, from the University of Nebraska at Kearney, and Cheryl Childers, from Washburn University in Topeka, Kansas, have been looking into infidelity on the internet and sexting (sending sexually explicit text ... more
To me, yes that is cheating and I would be seriously hurt by it
01/04/2012
Contributor: Megan Jean Megan Jean
Without a doubt.
01/04/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
I think that this depends on the couples ground rules. I would be mad about it, but as long as he was not touching most likely would not care and allow it to continue and if he was touching then I best be involved otherwise that is terrible.

I think it would be hot to sext with another couple or do some Camming with another couple, but I have never mentioned this he would not want to do it. He would if it were two girls, but a guy is a deal breaker.
01/04/2012
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
If it is something you have previously agreed is ok, then it's fine. If not, it's cheating.
01/04/2012
Contributor: Anjulie Anjulie
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Originally posted by freakincage
It is definitely cheating
Agreed
01/04/2012
Contributor: sexydelphia sexydelphia
i would definitely consider it cheating
01/04/2012
Contributor: Collogue Collogue
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Originally posted by AngelvMaynard
Sexuality researchers Diane Kholos Wysocki, from the University of Nebraska at Kearney, and Cheryl Childers, from Washburn University in Topeka, Kansas, have been looking into infidelity on the internet and sexting (sending sexually explicit text ... more
Sometimes I troll on omegle in a way that is almost sexting, but since it's trolling and not actually about me, not actually serious, and since I tell my partner, I don't consider it cheating
01/08/2012
Contributor: Nazaress Nazaress
Yes, yes, and a thousand times yes. Any betrayal to a non-open relationship, emotional or otherwise, is cheating.
01/08/2012
Contributor: Maiden Maiden
I think any activity that you would HIDE from your partner is considered cheating. That being said, I personally don't feel like sexting is cheating. I wouldn't bother me to find out my man was doing this. However, I KNOW he doesn't want ME doing it, so in that case if I did it, it would be considered cheating. As big an offense as ACTUALLY physically cheating? No, but that distinction is made by my man's feelings. Every situation is different, but as a rule of thumb I just say : Would I say or do this if my man was standing right next to me? If not, if I would hide it, then it's dishonest. Period.

That being said, I DO "sext" every now and then. I know my man doesn't like it, so I don't tell him about it. He knows I do this every now and then, as we have discussed it. He doesn't like it, but as long as I am not rubbing his face in it, it is sort of "don't ask, don't tell". Our relationship is very different from others though. I wouldn't recommend any one doing something their partner doesn't agree with, and I am in no way saying that what I do is right. I'm just being honest about it.
03/26/2012
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
It's definitely emotional cheating, without the risk of an STD, pregnancy, or even known identities.
03/26/2012
Contributor: lisasharrer lisasharrer
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Originally posted by AngelvMaynard
Sexuality researchers Diane Kholos Wysocki, from the University of Nebraska at Kearney, and Cheryl Childers, from Washburn University in Topeka, Kansas, have been looking into infidelity on the internet and sexting (sending sexually explicit text ... more
yes i do unless it an open relsonship
03/26/2012
Contributor: Paula Paula
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Originally posted by Rossie
I consider this kind of behavior as psychological cheating, which might be the root that advances into physical infidelity.
Agreed, absolutely.
03/29/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
Oh heck yea.
03/30/2012
Contributor: pootpootpoot pootpootpoot
Definitely! Emotional cheating is a HUGE issue for me, and it's really frustrating when people thing that the only way to cheat is having sex outside a relationship. In relationships where this is clearly permitted, of course, it wouldn't apply, but I wouldn't be okay with my partner sexting other people.
03/30/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
It's not cheating per say...but it may lead to cheating. I think it's just like flirting, if you don't take it too far it's not a big deal (though I'd rather not know about it if my partner were doing it)
03/30/2012
Contributor: dragonn dragonn
Wouldn't do it. Counts as cheating for me especially if I'm not open about it with my partner.
03/31/2012