All of us have different views on what a marriage should be and how each of the partners should act and duties that we all have.

My thinking is-I don't work. I stay at home and take care of the baby while hubby busts his ass for very little pay all morning. My thinking-Its my JOB and obligation to make sure that when he is home, he is comfy and fed and taken care of. Now mind you, he DOES have responsibilities at home. Just because he works doesn't mean he doesn't have to help with baby girl, take out garbage/recycle or do a few things around the house when I am dead tired. But, I take into consideration that he may need a nap from time to time, and leave him be.

However, some people see this as a degrading way to women, to assume that we are left home to be the "slaves". Now, for the record-I choose/want to stay home. I love being a stay at home mom. As long as the bills are paid. In the event that money needs to be made, I have no issue with helping with that.

So Im wondering-What are your thoughts on a relationship and who does what in your home. Do you feel that women should HAVE to stay home? Or do you feel that its degrading to women to assume that our position is in the home. ?