a big one about our trust issues.

Right now.... he's bugging me about leaving my clothes in the bathroom closet (he does the SAME thing) and my chatting with a former coworker. All I want to do is relax after coming home from work...

Him being overbearing and wanting to try to tell me when I should go to bed. If I am not tired, I am not going to go to bed. Or I guess I could and just keep him awake by tossing and turning...which would start another fight.

For the record I am in a poly triad.

We really honestly don't fight much. Seriously. The last one I remember was when I took a shower while one of my SOs was trying to sleep, several years ago... I didn't realize how much it bothered her, and she kept it in for several days before telling me. (Now our schedules are all over the place so we just HAVE to shower while people are sleeping, no other options.) So that was a heated argument.

So honestly, it's been years, and I think what was lacking there was communication. With proper communication and plenty of flexibility, I don't think we have fights. Honest to god.

Our last argument was about my hubby loaning out a pickup truck that we have at our house (it is registered and insured in my moms name). It is an extended cab ford f250 and the thing is a gas hog But we paid for the gas, all we got was one small load of wood. He kept telling me it was loaned to his aunt. doesn't matter who borrowed it, anything happens to it and it falls on my mom, not us.

I thought it was a big deal, he thought I was just getting on his nerves.

Money issues (I like to buy her things and she's not used to people being generous).

About his mother calling him multiple times a day, every day, always wanting him to go to her place and do something for her. Wouldn't bother me so much if he didn't go over there every single time. We have things I'd like to do at our house, but it's almost impossible with him jumping every time she needs something. She's a grown woman and her 21 year old daughter lives with her, let her help! ugh.