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At what point do you take a look at a relationship and realize it is no longer a viable and fulfilling part of your life?
Has it been due to outside or inside influences?
Have both parties changed or just one?
Is it an issue you have
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At what point do you take a look at a relationship and realize it is no longer a viable and fulfilling part of your life?
Has it been due to outside or inside influences?
Have both parties changed or just one?
Is it an issue you have avoided acknowledging or a new issue?
Where do you draw the line--for your happiness and future well being?
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Well for me, I'd draw the line and call it quits if something extreme happened, or if my partner was hateful and disrespectful to me on a regular basis. If one or the both of us just did not love each other anymore, betrayal, if one or both were left unsatisfied no matter what.
My partner and I are pretty good together and very happy, thank God. I couldn't imagine us being unhappy with each other and I hope that never happens. But there are times when you're better off to call it quits. If there's a serious problem and the other doesn't make any effort, then they simply don't care and it's over.
As for us, we aren't dealing with the issue of splitting up, but if needed, I think a couple should be able to draw the line when both are unhappy and neither are being satisfied (and I don't mean petty things. I mean true happiness.)