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Contributor: Mrs.M2008 Mrs.M2008
Every once in a while I will have a dream that my husband is cheating on me. He thinks it's funny and enlightens me when I bring it up.
The dreams are always about someone who is the complete opposite of me AND always with him getting her from behind.
I wake up a little upset but also a little turned on. I'm not sure if I'm upset because he cheated on me or because I couldn't join in. (I'm also bisexual)

However, every time I have those dreams, we end up having sex and the memories of the dreams tend to sneak in...
Anyone else go through this or is it just me?
12/25/2016
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Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Mrs.M2008
Every once in a while I will have a dream that my husband is cheating on me. He thinks it's funny and enlightens me when I bring it up.
The dreams are always about someone who is the complete opposite of me AND always with him getting her ... more
Nope, nope,no. Never. Sounds like it turns both of you on. Which is terrific!

Neiof us is a psychologist,but I'm guessing you would like to have some sex a different more exciting way. And fantasize about 3 somes.

I never remember any of my dreams, but he always tells me I moan in my sleep.

How about you? Does he also tell you that
12/27/2016
Contributor: poetprincess poetprincess
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Originally posted by Mrs.M2008
Every once in a while I will have a dream that my husband is cheating on me. He thinks it's funny and enlightens me when I bring it up.
The dreams are always about someone who is the complete opposite of me AND always with him getting her ... more
I used to try to get my ex to have sex with another girl so I could watch. The idea of watching him turned me on, he would always say no but I would have dreams that I was watching him and I would wake him up for sex after wards.
12/28/2016
Contributor: konicaguy konicaguy
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Originally posted by Mrs.M2008
Every once in a while I will have a dream that my husband is cheating on me. He thinks it's funny and enlightens me when I bring it up.
The dreams are always about someone who is the complete opposite of me AND always with him getting her ... more
Not at all. I'm too jealous of a person.
01/02/2017
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Mrs.M2008
Every once in a while I will have a dream that my husband is cheating on me. He thinks it's funny and enlightens me when I bring it up.
The dreams are always about someone who is the complete opposite of me AND always with him getting her ... more
just the thought of her even doing it with someone else turns me on

Relax, just a fantasy
01/17/2017
Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
(EdenFantasys)
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
just the thought of her even doing it with someone else turns me on

Relax, just a fantasy
..Just a fantasy?
01/18/2017
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Lena Eden
..Just a fantasy?
What about the two of you ? Inquiring minds want to know

You and he must fantasize about something. I know which OW does. The usual female fantasies.
01/18/2017
Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
(EdenFantasys)
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
What about the two of you ? Inquiring minds want to know

You and he must fantasize about something. I know which OW does. The usual female fantasies.
Hope my sweetheart will never read it, but sometimes during sex I fantasize about Brad Pitt And the thought that my boyfriend doesn't realize it turns me on
01/19/2017
Contributor: mikeysPlace mikeysPlace
eh, not really
02/17/2017
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
Interesting question... Honestly, for me its a little bit of both so yes and no. This is going to sound all types of bizarre but, it would all depend on how it's done. For example I'd be on board if it was a Hotwife scenario where she told me about the experience afterwards or maybe during in great detail or maybe recorded the "encounter" for later viewing for us as a type of foreplay, however if it was just a simple cheating after a fight or something lame like that then NO.

It's complicated, what can I say?
02/18/2017
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Lena Eden
Hope my sweetheart will never read it, but sometimes during sex I fantasize about Brad Pitt And the thought that my boyfriend doesn't realize it turns me on
Brad Pitt? You too?
02/20/2017
Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
(EdenFantasys)
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Brad Pitt? You too?
Was it a 'high-five'?
02/21/2017