Dominant VS Submissive Fantasys

Dominant VS Submissive Fantasys

Lilitu Lilitu
Do you fantasize about dominating or being dominated more?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Dominating
21  (17%)
Getting dominated
69  (54%)
Both about even
33  (26%)
Other
4  (3%)
Total votes: 127
Poll is closed
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Ghost Ghost
Dominating, although my husband (while having a really strong desire to please) does not take direction well and it kind of turns me off.
07/27/2011
toxie m toxie m
I'm much more submissive than dominant and my fantasies pretty clearly reflect that
07/27/2011
salaciousrex salaciousrex
Being dominated for sure. With a couple girls I've been into I've fantasized about dominating, but in general I'm submissive.
07/27/2011
sarki sarki
Always about being dominated
07/27/2011
Sir Sir
I do not really fantasize about either, I do not think.
07/27/2011
dezzydezire dezzydezire
wow, so many people wanting to be dominated that not enough dominators to go around... lol
07/27/2011
Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
I don't fantasize about either, but I am just beginning to dominate my husband at his request.
07/27/2011
ThoughtsAblaze ThoughtsAblaze
Before I was intimate, I always fantasized about being dominated. Now I find more of my fantasies changing to me being the dominant one!
07/27/2011
Anjulie Anjulie
Depends on my mood, but it's pretty even.
07/27/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
I'm always the submissive - it's just the role I play best.
07/27/2011
padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by Lilitu
Do you fantasize about dominating or being dominated more?
I am a submissive and fantasize a lot about being dominated
07/28/2011
LostBoy988 LostBoy988
As a switch I definitely enjoy being on both sides depending on the situation and the other person involved.
07/28/2011
Caprieclipse Caprieclipse
i like a bit of both!
07/29/2011
ijako9 ijako9
I think about but both but more often dominating
07/29/2011
Crichton Crichton
I think about both, but at times I prefer being submissive. I think this is mostly because it's out of my comfort zone and being dominating is out of my boyfriend's comfort zone.
07/29/2011
null null
Only being dominated by men. Dominating a man would really turn me off. :/
07/30/2011
Pixel Pixel
I ID mostly as a Domme. I have no issues with topping either a male or female and enjoy/fantasize about both. I don't think I've ever had a fantasy about submitting to another female, though. Just doesn't do anything for me.
07/30/2011
Madeira Madeira
Quote:
Originally posted by Lilitu
Do you fantasize about dominating or being dominated more?
I'm totally submissive
08/04/2011
kinksters kinksters
love to be dominated
08/05/2011
TameTemptress TameTemptress
I am much more submissive.
08/05/2011
Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
Both, though he only fantasizes about being dominated.
08/05/2011
TheSlyFox TheSlyFox
Since i'm Submissive, i usually have fantasys about being dominant. i don't know why though :p
08/12/2011
Alyxx Alyxx
I fantasize about both, depending on my mood and who exactly I'm thinking about.
08/15/2011
SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
Mostly being dominated, but some of the crazier Patrick fantasies do involve me dominating him.
08/15/2011
Kkay Kkay
I'm a sub. I don't usually fantasize about things happening to me/doing things. My fantasies are more likely to come from a dominant PoV, though. I think part of it might be that my preferences for dominance are very active, so it's harder to stay in the sub mindset while thinking all of that up.
08/15/2011
indiglo indiglo
I don't actually fantasize about it, but if I had to pick a side I'd definitely be dominating, I am not interested in being a sub.
08/15/2011
Ash1141 Ash1141
Being dominated.
09/30/2011
LadyDarknezz LadyDarknezz
Being dominated. Now, all I need is a man to do just that.
09/30/2011
unfulfilled unfulfilled
It would be nice just once to reverse roles and be dominating.
09/30/2011
Total posts: 64
Unique posters: 63