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Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
So I've heard a fair amount of women on here, other sex sites and LoveLine say that they fantasize about their guy being with another guy, so I wanna know

Do you fantasize about this and would you let your guy be with another guy?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes I fantasize about this.
8
No I don't fantasize about this.
27
Yes I would let him sleep with another guy.
5
No I would not let him sleep with another guy.
21
Other
3
Total votes: 64 (42 voters)
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06/19/2012
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Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
I don't fantasize about this and would never want my guy sleeping with another guy...
06/19/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Falsepast
So I've heard a fair amount of women on here, other sex sites and LoveLine say that they fantasize about their guy being with another guy, so I wanna know

Do you fantasize about this and would you let your guy be with another guy?
I don't fantasize about this, and he also doesn't. So this hasn't crossed my mind much.
06/19/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Quote:
Originally posted by Missmarc
I don't fantasize about this, and he also doesn't. So this hasn't crossed my mind much.
Same here. My guy will NEVER be with another guy!
06/19/2012
Contributor: Loriandhubby Loriandhubby
no way no how am i sharing my hubby with anyone. i'll do anything he wants, so there is no need. hehehe
06/19/2012
Contributor: pasdechat pasdechat
I'll freely admit that it's a fantasy of mine, BUT I'm pretty sure I couldn't actually deal with a boyfriend sleeping with anyone else--man or woman. I'm just a little too possessive for that. An ex boyfriend of mine was bi, though, and if I'm being perfectly honest, the knowledge that he had been with other men was a turn on, even if I didn't want him acting on it while he was with me.
06/19/2012
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by Falsepast
So I've heard a fair amount of women on here, other sex sites and LoveLine say that they fantasize about their guy being with another guy, so I wanna know

Do you fantasize about this and would you let your guy be with another guy?
I don't fantasize about it.
06/19/2012
Contributor: Karmababe Karmababe
i think i would have to leave if that happened.. luckily it wont LOL
06/19/2012
Contributor: Sangsara Sangsara
Depends if I knew he was bi before we got into a relationship . Actually it depends on the guy. I'm not turned on by guy on guy but it doesn't bother me either.
06/19/2012
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
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I wouldn't want him to do it, and I am not turned on by the thought. I don't get turned on by the thought of my boyfriend cheating on me, but to each their own!
06/19/2012
Contributor: brevado brevado
Not at all our sort of thing
06/19/2012
Contributor: solitudinarian solitudinarian
I've thought about it, but he has interest in men so it would never happen. Not sure that I would want it to even if he did, it's more just a fantasy thing for me.
06/19/2012
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
He can do whatever he wants as long as he plays safe..... though he really isn't into guys.
06/19/2012
Contributor: Petite Valentine Petite Valentine
I enjoy man-on-man action (François Sagat, oui!) but my guy with another guy? Never. He's very much a women-only guy.
06/19/2012
Contributor: Yaoi Pervette (deleted) Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
I may fantasize about it, but it isn't going to happen. My husband is as straight as they come.
06/19/2012
Contributor: mjtheprincess mjtheprincess
I dated a guy who was really into this... unfortunately, try as I might, it doesn't do it for me. But, if it's what they're into...to each his own.
06/20/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I've never fantasized about it, and I only want him with me.
06/20/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
It isn't something I fantasize about. I did when I was much younger, my teens, I don't know why. I think I had a preference for androgynous men then, as a way of making men seem less threatening. Once I started having sex regularly, I no longer felt threatened by masculine men and the fantasy disappeared.

I am NOT saying this is why other women have this fantasy only that it was the reason I did. This was my issue, and it probably doesn't pertain to others and their fantasies.
06/20/2012
Contributor: Mwar Mwar
It's not something I'd want to see, per se. If he expressed an interest in doing a guy, i'd have to think about it. For some reason, I'm more okay with the idea of him being with men I know well then others. Eh...
06/20/2012
Contributor: wdanas wdanas
Ha, nope.
06/20/2012
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
It is not a fantasy of mine, because my man and I are in a monogamous relationship. I would be hurt if he had sex with someone else. Not that I wouldn't "let" him, because we can't control other people - but I would definitely consider it cheating.
06/20/2012
Contributor: Deeder Deeder
Never fantasized about it, and don't have to worry about him doing it. The mere thought of having some other dude's wang anywhere near him makes him shudder.
06/20/2012
Contributor: sexydelphia sexydelphia
never!
06/20/2012
Contributor: pasdechat pasdechat
Quote:
Originally posted by pasdechat
I'll freely admit that it's a fantasy of mine, BUT I'm pretty sure I couldn't actually deal with a boyfriend sleeping with anyone else--man or woman. I'm just a little too possessive for that. An ex boyfriend of mine was bi, ... more
Qualifying my answer from earlier: I definitely am turned on my man-on-man, but it's more in an...abstract sense? I guess what I mean is that, even if I fantasized about a boyfriend of mine sleeping with another man (which I usually don't--it's generally men that I'm not in relationships with) in my fantasy, he would not be in a relationship with me. The idea of a boyfriend cheating--or even being in some sort of polyamorous situation--is a turn-off for me.
06/21/2012
Contributor: Why Not? Why Not?
He talks about fantasizing about me with another guy, but it is just a fantasy. Personally, I'm not keen on the thought of him with another guy.
07/28/2012
Contributor: Gettinmymojoback Gettinmymojoback
Quote:
Originally posted by Falsepast
So I've heard a fair amount of women on here, other sex sites and LoveLine say that they fantasize about their guy being with another guy, so I wanna know

Do you fantasize about this and would you let your guy be with another guy?
no no no! thats MINE!
07/30/2012
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
My hub n another man no. But my hub another man and me YES
07/30/2012