Have you ever felt ashamed or embarrassed of your fantasy? - Created by LavenderSkies on Oct 17, 2011: EdenFantasys Forum

Airen Wolf

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Originally posted by LavenderSkies

Curious poll!

When I was younger I did feel both ashamed and embarrassed about my violetn fantasies and how much they appealed to me. As I grew older I realized that in even my awfullest fantasies no one got truly hurt or was scarred forever emotionally and that the things I fantasized about if I did them in real life WOULD scar and maim someone emotionally...so I wasn't a bad person after all. So now I allow my fantasies to be what they are and realize that most of them couldn't be acted out but they are HAWT in fantasy!

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04/15/2012

NymphetamineKiss

Not ashamed, but I have felt embarrassed... Recently I remembered a porn clip I watched years ago and found really hot (a girl getting her ass duck taped open and getting anal) and was embarrassed by how hot I found it.. I'm still a bit embarrassed by my panty stuffing fetish, but a lot of that is down to the way most people don't understand how such an activity could be erotic for the girl engaging in it and often view it as a male-dominated fantasy by men who have no understanding of female anatomy etc...

Mostly, I'm fine with my fetishes and fantasies though. It can be really handy being on the fet scene for that!

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04/15/2012

ExesandOhs

Nope. Everyone has fantasies so I don't feel like being ashamed is necessary.

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04/15/2012

Arch600

Embarrassed in the sense of not knowing how people may respond. I tend to keep my fantasies to myself, though my wife and I have become more comfortable sharing over the years. Still, things go on in my mind sometimes that I feel could be game-changers if I shared with her. That has never been the case, but the fear is always there on some level.

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04/16/2012

UnknownGirl

It took me a while to not be embarrassed by wanting to have multiple guys at once. Then my husband brought it up as one of his fantasies. Now it's a fantasy (hopefully, soon to be reality) that we share.

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04/17/2012

Sir

I've felt ashamed by some of my interests, but not to the point of embarrassment or true, extreme shame. There's no reason to be. Everyone has their interests, it's not a big deal.

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07/25/2012

TheHardOne

If Im with someone who doesnt buy in and just goes through the motions for me. That can be kind of awkward.

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07/25/2012

gsfanatic

Little bit, but when I talked it over with my partner, I realized we both wanted to try it

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07/26/2012

Martiniman

Oh hell yes! I have a few fantasies I'll never share with anybody.

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01/08/2013

wanderer5964

some of mine i was embarrassed by but with my boyfriend now we can talk about anything and everything. but still takes me a little to get to the down and dirty stuff

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01/10/2013

sillylilkitten

Back when I was first getting into BDSM I was pretty embarrassed about my fantasies, but I haven't felt that way in a long time now.

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01/10/2013

Roz W

What if you fantasize about embarrassing other people? /notevenkidding

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01/13/2013

Hummingbird

I'm only ashamed to share my fantasy not of it. It's what turns me on, gets my juices flowing soto speak and makes me feel alive. So much so I wrote it down and keep enhancing it making it more tangible and real.

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01/15/2013

Marie Hanna

Ashamed no. Embarrassed yes. I think its pretty normal though because society has very conservative views.

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02/05/2013

JennSenn

Yes to both. Some of mine are a bit taboo. I'm not sure I'll ever share them all. But I don't think it's necessary for me. A lot of them can't be acted out anyway.

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02/05/2013