If you are talking about doing something that is a hard limit for them, no. If they have some to me and said that they wanted to "try" something that used to be a definite no, I will oblige. Now, soft limits? Those I try to push all the time. It is about being gentle, not hounding them on the issue, and to slowly introduce the activity with something perhaps less invasive. If you want to start doing some bondage play you are not going to put them on a St. Andrew's cross the first night! You start with something like bringing home some fuzzy cuffs from the gas station because it was funny they sold them there. One friend won a pair of metal cuff that kids play with from a pizza place and joked about it to her hubby only to later have him say that he was open to the idea when they got home. Be the neck, not the head of the relationship and you can turn the head any way you want.

Did oral on my first girlfriend. She had never heard of it and was afraid, it worked out fine after I got her to just relax and enjoy it. Sometime later I convinced her to return the favor, that took some talking to get her to do it, it was my first time, and hers.

Sounds like you have it going on. It's all about never stopping to explore and have fun doing it. There is always something new and worth trying around the corner...together.

Wow. That is a wild admission.