How can I get him to relax?

Contributor: southernhawtie southernhawtie
How can I get my boyfriend to relax enough to do role play? He likes it but he is so uptight when it comes to sex. What do I do??
12/04/2010
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Contributor: maskineri maskineri
Some alcohol usually does the trick. Don't overdo, though.
12/04/2010
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
Start with little things too. Maybe asking him to do some of the things his role would do so you can both become comfortable with it before introducing costumes and whatnot?
12/04/2010
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
Sorry my thing keeps on double posting today.
12/04/2010
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
Have you asked him about it? There's no reason to include alchohol or anything else if you haven't asked him about it all. Maybe he's had a bad experience in his past that makes him cautious about sex. Communication is the best way to solve all problems.
12/04/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Try to find out what he's not completely comfortable with. It might just be that it's new to him, or it might be something else.
12/04/2010