How great is the separation between fantasy and reality?

Contributor: cryinglightning86 cryinglightning86
If you have a sexual fantasy about something, do you always feel the need to act it out, or do you prefer to keep fantasies as fantasies? Do you prefer to keep your fantasies to yourself, or do you like to share them with your sex partner?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I like to act out my fantasies.
5
I like to keep my fantasies as fantasies.
12
Depends on the situation.
35
Other.
1
Total votes: 53 (46 voters)
Poll is closed
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Contributor: Girly Juice Girly Juice
My fantasies tend to be pretty vanilla, so I've almost always been able to act them out with a partner. Sometimes the partner didn't even know I was acting out a fantasy of mine.
06/28/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
There are some that I would really like to try out, but I haven't gotten my husband on board yet. We've only done a couple things that would be considered acting out a fantasy. Would like to get more into it at some point.
06/28/2012
Contributor: amazon amazon
When the fantasies start taking over, you've got a problem.
06/28/2012
Contributor: solitudinarian solitudinarian
I share most of them with my partner and act quite a few of them out. Some fantasies I do not wish to make a reality.
06/28/2012
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
As wide as a Martian canyon ...

Never get to be with anyone long enough to be that comfortable with them. Though they always seem to demand to know mine.
06/28/2012
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
We role play a lot of things, but we don't necessarily bring other people into it in a physical form. This is why our toy collection is so large!
06/28/2012
Contributor: hillys hillys
I only had one fantasy really that I could remember and it was about a car. I brought it up and it was totally worth it.
06/28/2012
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by cryinglightning86
If you have a sexual fantasy about something, do you always feel the need to act it out, or do you prefer to keep fantasies as fantasies? Do you prefer to keep your fantasies to yourself, or do you like to share them with your sex partner?
There are some I'd like to try but know they will never happen so it's a mix of both.
06/28/2012
Contributor: KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
Some of mine are great to be acted out and some will remain fantasies.
06/28/2012
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
Some fantasies (ex threesomes) I like to keep to myself, others I like to share with my wife all the time.
06/28/2012
Contributor: Gdom Gdom
It depends not only on the situation but on the fantasy itself. Even in a world without consequences, there are still some fantasies I wouldn't want to act out.
08/15/2012
Contributor: ellieprobable ellieprobable
Some fantasies aren't really meant to be acted out but we can still enjoy them in our minds.
08/16/2012
Contributor: EdenUser EdenUser
I keep them separate.
09/28/2012
Contributor: KrazyKandy KrazyKandy
Depends, most of the time I act but like when I comes to 3somes I dont.
09/28/2012
Contributor: LunaLuthor LunaLuthor
Quote:
Originally posted by cryinglightning86
If you have a sexual fantasy about something, do you always feel the need to act it out, or do you prefer to keep fantasies as fantasies? Do you prefer to keep your fantasies to yourself, or do you like to share them with your sex partner?
sometimes it's not as good as it needs to be
10/01/2012
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
Sometimes the fantasy is so good that reality could never measure up to it.
10/01/2012
Contributor: GirlOnGirl GirlOnGirl
Most of the time I look for opportunities to act them out but some just wouldn't be practical so they will remain fantasies. I'm pretty open about sharing the details with partners tho!
10/01/2012
Contributor: Mrs.Intensity Mrs.Intensity
I definitely act out my fantasies with my boyfriend. I am sure there are some thoughts though that I've had and have not acted out, but some of them involve situations I cannot be in right now. For example, I'd like to make love on a small boat, and I cannot act that out just yet.
10/01/2012
Contributor: pirata pirata
I tell him my fantasies, but some are way too extreme or complicated to act out.
10/01/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by cryinglightning86
If you have a sexual fantasy about something, do you always feel the need to act it out, or do you prefer to keep fantasies as fantasies? Do you prefer to keep your fantasies to yourself, or do you like to share them with your sex partner?
It depends on the situation. I have been working on fulfilling all of mine!
10/04/2012
Contributor: twelve13 twelve13
Totally depends on the situation. Some I could like to fulfill. Some I am definitely okay leaving in the fantasy realm.
04/10/2013
Contributor: elli elli
Most of the time, I'm willing to act them out, but a few require situations that are unlikely in my current relationship (incompatible kinks, more people, etc).
04/15/2013
Contributor: oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
For the most part my fantasies are best left as fantasies.
04/29/2013
Contributor: llellsee llellsee
Most of my fantasies are something that I've no real interest in acting out.
05/05/2013