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How many of you have a strong fetish?

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Contributor: Wild Orchid Wild Orchid
For the purpose of this question lets define a "strong fetish" as something you can't get off and/or get aroused without or you can but it's much more difficult and/or it takes much longer. The fetish might be something you need physically present or just in your mind.

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I have a pretty strong fetish
29  (27%)
There are some kinks that help me get off but they don't have that much impact
65  (61%)
I don't think I have a fetish
12  (11%)
Other
Total votes: 106
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Contributor: MaryExy MaryExy
Personally, mine are pretty mild. My guy didn't have any in the past... I think the ones he has recently developed don't have that much control over whether he can get off.
07/01/2011
Contributor: squire squire
This is an interesting question as I think part of it is determined by one's perceptions and preferences. If you struggle with it, meaning causes distress in some way (i.e., object dependent) then it could be a paraphilia..but if you can be satisfied without also...fetish.

I guess my answer would be no. I very much enjoy anal play, and my wife enjoys playing with my butt every chance I she gets. DO I like it..YES!! , would I want it most if not every time..YES, is it necessary for arousal..no.

A question I think would be also interesting to ask would be that of sexual deal breakers in a relationship...I would not be able to be with a woman long term unless they liked anal play and were adventurous. Does that mean it's something I am dependent on? Probably not, more so I want to be happy and I know what I really like...but still..perception I suppose.
07/01/2011
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
Personally, I have to feel dominated in some way, either through fantasy or reality. I really can't get off, otherwise.
07/01/2011
Contributor: Trillian Trillian
I answered the second one. I would have liked to have an option of that when I am in a kinky mood that my fetishes get me really turned on and intensify my orgasms.
07/01/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
At one time I would have said no - but I know have a recurring mental image that is very helpful when I'm ready to orgasm.
07/01/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Wild Orchid
For the purpose of this question lets define a "strong fetish" as something you can't get off and/or get aroused without or you can but it's much more difficult and/or it takes much longer. The fetish might be something you need ... more
Human nature to like certain things or not other things...but a Fetish really is a strong compulsion and NOPE...don't have those. Nothing that would devastating me if I could never do it again.
07/01/2011
Contributor: Bonesdance Bonesdance
There are a few things that get me super aroused, but I certainly don't need them to be part of sex for it to be fully satisfying.
07/01/2011
Contributor: thebest thebest
a few
07/01/2011
Contributor: SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
Dirty talk is definitely one. I'm with Dusk too.
07/01/2011
Contributor: jc123 jc123
I can't orgasm without dominance/pain, but I do enjoy other kinds of sex too.
07/01/2011
Contributor: M121212 M121212
I am not super into any specific fetish... I am getting more and more into kink though.
07/01/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
i have lots of minor fetishes, but i don't necessarily need them to get off.
07/02/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I don't have anything I NEED to be able to get off. There are certain things I like, that might get me off quicker, but I don't need them.
07/02/2011
Contributor: A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
I have a very strong fetish for dirty talk.
07/02/2011
Contributor: KnK KnK
Quote:
Originally posted by Wild Orchid
For the purpose of this question lets define a "strong fetish" as something you can't get off and/or get aroused without or you can but it's much more difficult and/or it takes much longer. The fetish might be something you need ... more
I consider myself a poly-fetishist, with a mild interest. They help, but I don't need one of them present to get off.
07/02/2011
Contributor: Waterfall Waterfall
I don't think I have any STRONG fetishes, but I have some things that I like which make me a lot happier if they do occur.
07/02/2011
Contributor: KinkyKrissy KinkyKrissy
Quote:
Originally posted by Dusk
Personally, I have to feel dominated in some way, either through fantasy or reality. I really can't get off, otherwise.
I'm with you on this one. Dominance is pretty much necessary for me to get off. I'm reading Please, Sir and it's great for when I'm by myself and want a new fantasy to think about.
07/02/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
Yes, I have a few - one of them being that I need to be dominated by a partner. If I'm the more dominant one, I have no interest in sex or having much else to do with them.
07/02/2011
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
It's nice to see people who are in my boat!
07/05/2011
Contributor: Poohbear5 Poohbear5
Being dominated is what gets me. And dirty talk. Hubby likes to stay quiet while we're having sex, so I have to keep telling him to talk to me. His voice just reallllllyyy gets to me.
07/05/2011
Contributor: N&M N&M
I don't have any strong fetishes, but it's interesting to see what turns different people on.
08/06/2011
Contributor: Yaoi Pervette (deleted) Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
I have what I would call preferences, but none are really necessary for me to enjoy myself.
08/06/2011
Contributor: emiliaa emiliaa
Nah, I prefer to have partners who don't have a strong fetish unless it's something I'm also into...even still it might get old.
08/06/2011
Contributor: JaneDoe ToyCollector JaneDoe ToyCollector
i have a huge tity fetish!
10/03/2011
Contributor: averageguyextrodinarypleasure averageguyextrodinarypleasure
love boobies!
10/03/2011
Contributor: kadytheredpanda kadytheredpanda
Quote:
Originally posted by Wild Orchid
For the purpose of this question lets define a "strong fetish" as something you can't get off and/or get aroused without or you can but it's much more difficult and/or it takes much longer. The fetish might be something you need ... more
I have a ton of fetishes: uniforms, glasses, etc., but it depends on my mood what makes me come fastest when I'm masturbating.
10/04/2011
Contributor: Katastophy Katastophy
I have a bit of a bondage fetish...
10/04/2011
Contributor: Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
I have not found something that has effected me that much just yet.
10/04/2011
Contributor: buttmunch buttmunch
I enjoy being bit and biting (spanking too) and dirty talk is great too but not necessary, although oddly enough I like dirty talk when it makes me laugh, I don't know why.
10/05/2011