How often do you fake an orgasm with your partner?

Contributor: Crichton Crichton
I've never faked it. I think I cum too easily in my opinion. Then again there are things that used to never turn me on that do now so maybe I don't cum as easily as I thought.

I've been lucky to always have been fulfilled by my partners; especially the recent one.
07/24/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I've faked in the past, but I do not fake with my man now. It doesn't lead to anything good when you fake.
07/24/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
I do not if its not good I pull out bullet and get it done!
07/25/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
i don't fake orgasms. if we need to work on something, i'll be honest with him.
07/27/2011
Contributor: jessterinthebed jessterinthebed
I faked for 6 years every time to spare my husbands feelings. Only to start resenting him for being a bad lover. Then i figured out it wasn't him it was me! I will never fake again.
08/05/2011
Contributor: fleshlightluvr1 fleshlightluvr1
Never, and I don't think my wife does either, but who knows!
08/05/2011
Contributor: Starkiller87 Starkiller87
Never because than he would think i enjoyed the particular thing he was doing and repeatedly do it. Id rather he learn what i like.
08/05/2011
Contributor: MJ1337 MJ1337
I take forever to get off sometimes, and sometimes I just don't finish. I don't see a reason in trying to fake/lie about it.
08/06/2011
Contributor: CreamySweet CreamySweet
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Originally posted by haley730
I wanna see how often people fake it
Ok this is a tough and serious one for me... I faked a couple times with my husband And one day when he asked if I ever did I said yes a couple time -not wanting to lie about it. It... that... did not go well. I could not believe how hurt he was by me doing it. I would say by me admitting it but you know what? The hurtful act was on me for faking in the first place. It caused a huge and lasting issue for him and his confidence. Not because I didnt cum but because I faked. He often still years later will ask "Did you really cum? Or were you just pretending?" Not every time... but often enough I can tell he still thinks about it... and I see the sadness on his face and in his eyes. He loves me very very much and would do anything for me... and would let me do anything I wanted to sexually to enjoy myself. I feel so bad that it put the fear or worry into our sex lives that didnt need to be there. This is a guy who always -always would eat, finger or toy with me until I came a time or two before he would ever worry about getting off himself. My advice - if it didnt work be honest up front and be a good enough communicator to either say why or what would have made it better. Please dont fake it - even if your pissed off, or they just cant do it right to get you over the top. You wont realize how much it hurts until you do and see the pain that simple fake can cause.
10/05/2011
Contributor: mudpie mudpie
Never. If I don't get there, I'm not going to lie. It doesn't mean the sex wasn't good, and I wish people wouldn't be so orgasm-focused.
11/17/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
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Originally posted by haley730
I wanna see how often people fake it
Never
11/18/2011
Contributor: eeep eeep
I've only had one ex where I faked at all with. And that was because whenever he got too close he'd stop for a few seconds, so if I was close to getting off I'd start faking to be sure he'd keep going and actually put me over the edge. So it was faking so that I would get off, which sounds kinda weird. I had tried talking to him about it, but no matter what else I said or tried to do to let him knowing in the heat of the moment, that was the only thing that ever worked with him.
11/18/2011
Contributor: Breas Breas
Never. I'd probably look ridiculous if I even tried lol
11/18/2011
Contributor: eroticmutt eroticmutt
Quote:
Originally posted by haley730
I wanna see how often people fake it
Nope, I haven;t
11/19/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
Nope! Never thank goodness!
11/19/2011
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
Never.
11/19/2011
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
When you fake it, your partner gets the idea that he or she is doing things that work for you, when they don't.

I have probably faked a few times, (a LONG time ago) and it came back to bite me in the ass (not literally) because then the ... more
This is my answer as well, except the part about faking it a long time ago (I've never faked it).
11/19/2011
Contributor: 12345678 12345678
I hate doing it, but I've done it before...like a few other comments, mostly to get someone to stop doing something
11/20/2011
Contributor: Nympho88 Nympho88
I would never fake! My bf usually always gives me one. But he doesnt he doesnt! Faking it makes men lazy when it comes to your needs!!!!!
01/26/2012
Contributor: PeachieClean PeachieClean
I've never really done it. With the guy I lost my virginity to, I'd never had an orgasm before that so I didn't know *how* to fake it, the second guy I fucked I didn't really care to fake it and now my boyfriend makes me orgasm pretty much every time. He just knows how to hit that spot, I guess.
01/28/2012
Contributor: Eliza Eliza
My partner and I are comfortable enough with each other that we just don't need to do that. He makes me feel great, and if I can't get to an orgasm, at least I enjoyed everything. If I want to orgasm but whatever he's doing isn't quite enough, I will often just "help out" a bit. He thinks it's sexy anyway, so it's a win-win situation.
01/28/2012
Contributor: samanthalynn samanthalynn
never
01/30/2012
Contributor: Graniteal Graniteal
never
02/01/2012
Contributor: Silverdrop Silverdrop
I did with other partners when I was younger. I'm older and (hopefully) wiser now, so I know that faking it is kind of silly. If it doesn't happen, then it doesn't. Obviously both of us prefer that we both get to orgasm, but as the body gets older, it sometimes doesn't cooperate. That doesn't mean anyone's feelings or ego has to be hurt.
02/01/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Never had to
02/01/2012
Contributor: (k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
I did it in the past (every time), but eventually realized it wasn't fair to my partner... Or to myself! I sat down and had a long talk with my partner, explaining that I have a sort of mental block that makes it difficult for me to orgasm with a male in the room, and damn near impossible when one is touching me.
We've worked at it a lot (lots of patience and understanding on his part) and made a lot of progress. I don't fake it now, ever.
02/01/2012
Contributor: Greenleaf Greenleaf
I don't fake it. My partner is more than happy to assist me manually if I don't climax, and I do the same for him when needed as well. It seems like lying.
02/01/2012
Contributor: oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
Never ever. It's dishonest and counterproductive. Most of the time I orgasm at least once. Sometimes I don't and that's okay. He doesn't always cum either.
02/11/2012
Contributor: link82 link82
Fortunately I don't have to do it very often, but if I'm really tired and I know it's just not gonna happen for me I will fake it.
02/11/2012
Contributor: Secret Pleasure Secret Pleasure
Never i believe in honesty so if i dont get off i will just be honest and tell my partner i didnt get off.
02/12/2012