Length of the fantasy

Length of the fantasy

DreamWolf DreamWolf
I heard that, when fantasizing away, females tend to build a whole story around the thing dreamed about, while for males it's often enough just to think of a body part... (I guess it also depends on it if you are a more masculine or feminine person...)

How's it going in your case?
01/03/2012
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Nazaress Nazaress
Hmm. I'm not sure. I guess I'm more "story-oriented". I can't just think of a set of boobs or a vagina and masturbate to that. I think about a situation, like a threesome or dominating another woman. Stuff like that.
01/03/2012
Chirple Chirple
Really depends.

While in the act, I've never really thought about a plot-based fantasy.

However, I write and write plots not just "boobs butts boobs nipple toe boobs".
01/03/2012
Kkay Kkay
I need the plot around it to be at all interested, really.
01/03/2012
Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
I need at least some small story to get me going. Sometimes it's something short and very much an "excuse plot," while at other times it's a lot longer and more in-depth.
01/04/2012
DreamWolf DreamWolf
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Originally posted by Chirple
Really depends.

While in the act, I've never really thought about a plot-based fantasy.

However, I write and write plots not just "boobs butts boobs nipple toe boobs".
~rofl!
01/07/2012
DreamWolf DreamWolf
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Originally posted by Rin (aka Nire)
I need at least some small story to get me going. Sometimes it's something short and very much an "excuse plot," while at other times it's a lot longer and more in-depth.
Myself I can go sooooooooooooooo far into the plot, that it is much more about what is happening on the psychological level, and the rest is just a needed flavor...

Though it's rather "dreaming away", I barely ever end up doing anything else then just running the thoughts for hours before I could fall asleep (they keep me up as hell too, but I can very hardly shut my brain out and just stop thinking about whatever is rambling around... ) - and of course it happens sometimes too that they are sooooooooo delicious that I gotta manage to do something related, or I will be trembling for a long while before settling down...

But yep, in my case such fantasies are far more about the atmosphere and intentions, feelings lying behind the acts, so it is fuckin pleasant just to get stuck at parts barely erotic, but extremely psychological... ^^
01/07/2012
DreamWolf DreamWolf
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Originally posted by Chirple
Really depends.

While in the act, I've never really thought about a plot-based fantasy.

However, I write and write plots not just "boobs butts boobs nipple toe boobs".
Oh, oh, and agreed...

Sometimes, while in the act of mating, I just think of something yummmy too, and other times the yummmy thing has a story behind it, but I don't imagine the story because I already know how it went, so the actual "happenings" are in the focus... ^^
01/07/2012
PeachieClean PeachieClean
Story for me. I get bored otherwise.
01/07/2012
MelSC MelSC
When fantasizing I usually have a whole plot/story.
01/07/2012
shcoo shcoo
There's never a big plot or backstory in my fantasies, but there are details like setting and clothing and things usually progress very slowly and vividly for me.
01/07/2012
DreamWolf DreamWolf
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Originally posted by MelSC
When fantasizing I usually have a whole plot/story.
Me too!
01/08/2012
DreamWolf DreamWolf
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Originally posted by shcoo
There's never a big plot or backstory in my fantasies, but there are details like setting and clothing and things usually progress very slowly and vividly for me.
Same here with the progressing, I have noticed that on minor things I can get stuck sooo easily cause I enjoy them so much!
01/08/2012
Daemonin Daemonin
I get into the story behind it. It's not always extremely detailed, but I think the story makes it more enjoyable for me.
01/08/2012
eroticmutt eroticmutt
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Originally posted by DreamWolf
I heard that, when fantasizing away, females tend to build a whole story around the thing dreamed about, while for males it's often enough just to think of a body part... (I guess it also depends on it if you are a more masculine or feminine ...
In my case I don't usually build up a whole story or anything. I either end up not aroused or fall asleep so I focus on the more hardcore aspects and generally rush to the intercourse part of my fantasies.
01/08/2012
prttynink prttynink
I totally have a plot around all of my fantasies. Giving myself a 'character' makes it more fun for me. I'm also a huge fan or erotic literature, which I suppose is pretty logical!
01/12/2012
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
I'm a guy and my fantasies always involve scenarios. The "stories" could be detailed and long, or short and immediate, but there are always scenarios and not just some body part.
01/12/2012
Daemonin Daemonin
I already posted, but I wanted to say something about my husband -- He has many scenarios that he told me about after I mentioned this post. Apparently it makes it more exciting to him.
01/12/2012
Gone (LD29) Gone (LD29)
I usually fantasize about a thought out scenario/story with plot to get aroused, but once I'm in the act, that sort of falls away and I find I'm not thinking of anything in particular.
01/12/2012
Mihoshi4301 Mihoshi4301
I don't really ever need a plot for my fantisies.
01/12/2012
Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
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Originally posted by eroticmutt
In my case I don't usually build up a whole story or anything. I either end up not aroused or fall asleep so I focus on the more hardcore aspects and generally rush to the intercourse part of my fantasies.
I sometimes (or rather, often) use my sexual fantasies as a falling-asleep tactic, largely because it works pretty well for that purpose most of the time.

For a longer fantasy, I usually have to build up most of the story while I'm doing other things, like cruising the internet or working, and fast forward to the good parts when I'm ready to play. That said, the good parts that have had a whole day of thought behind them tend to be the most fulfilling, while the quick, on-the-fly fantasies are just there to get me hot in a hurry.
01/13/2012
bsgs bsgs
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Originally posted by DreamWolf
I heard that, when fantasizing away, females tend to build a whole story around the thing dreamed about, while for males it's often enough just to think of a body part... (I guess it also depends on it if you are a more masculine or feminine ...
i tend to make whole movies in my head that revolve around the fantasy
02/15/2012
AHubbyof2SexualMinds AHubbyof2SexualMinds
I'm more like a woman then in that I usually build up a scenario rather than just a body part, though I have done that on occasion as well.
02/15/2012
oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
Long involved stories are boring. I always skip right to the sex. But it's usually sex with a power dynamic. It's not just imagining body parts. I don't really get off on visuals. Dirty words really do it for me though. I'll repeat certain phrases or variations of them over and over in my head when I'm getting close to orgasm.
02/21/2012
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