First bit of advice: Have a Safeword. Always have a word that can be used in these types of scenes to stop all play if you become uncomfortable or need to stop for any reason. Choose a word you wouldn't normally say in the context of the scene.

I suggest conducting your first scene indoors. If you try it outside, you could have problems with good Samaritans or the law. My first scene of this genre was a "forceful seduction" scene, where my lover and I fought for dominance while he intentionally touched me erotically until I "gave in". It's a pretty tame place to start, all in all. And it'll give you a good idea of how you'll react to more intense scenes, with less risk of emotional backlash. less

You could also try doing it in a motel, that way you have the "not at home" environment without the risk of being out in public. If you live in a really rural area and know of an area of wilderness that isn't often frequented, you could also do it there. Just be careful not to get lost or caught. Another good one is if you have a lot of land, you can go out in the middle of a field to do a scene.

Some ideas you might consider are: the boss coercing the secretary into sex, the jock forcing the cheerleader to give him a blowjob, a kidnapping scene, etc. A good place to get ideas would be a site like literotica where you can read erotic stories by category for free. They have a non-consent section. less

Thanks ! What he has been talking about and has me intrigued with are I guess what you could call "rape" scenes, though we use the words "forcibly take". We live in an area where there are a lot of rural areas and he says he found a place that is extremely dark with no lights out somewhere. He wants to take me there, pull me out of the truck and "take me". The thought excites me...... less