Generally speaking, I consider myself really kinky and before today, I didn't really feel like there was anything that "crossed the line" for me. I don't usually judge people even for super extreme fetishes: we can't help what we like, after all! I try hard to be the kind of person that any one can come to to confess something sexual and not be judged, but I ran into a slightly trickier situation today and realized that there are actually a few really common/tame things that I don't really think should be done.
For example... I've never been comfortable masturbating to the thought of having sex with friends that I KNOW would never have sex with me. It's an even bigger turn-off when I know that if they ever found out about me masturbating while thinking about them, it would ruin our friendship. Something about it, to me, just feels a little... Sketchy?
Another example is that I don't feel like artwork that isn't meant to be pornographic shouldn't be masturbated to. This applies to photography, drawings, poetry, etc--Something can be sexual without being erotic or arousing. Especially in the case of an artist "bearing their soul;" that seems icky to me. That's not something meant to be sullied.
I know that it's a critical of me because I'm SO kinky in so many ways... But those are some really tame things that just cross the line for me, even though they shouldn't be that big of a deal. Has anyone else had this experience? Are there any "tame" (or not so tame) things that cross the line for you, for any reason? These could be things that you don't like it that other people do OR things that you just refuse to do yourself.
Note; This thread isn't meant to be a bashing session on any fetish, by any means. This could be a potentially be a touchy subject, so if something makes you feel a little icky, try not to be too harsh about it!
For example... I've never been comfortable masturbating to the thought of having sex with friends that I KNOW would never have sex with me. It's an even bigger turn-off when I know that if they ever found out about me masturbating while thinking about them, it would ruin our friendship. Something about it, to me, just feels a little... Sketchy?
Another example is that I don't feel like artwork that isn't meant to be pornographic shouldn't be masturbated to. This applies to photography, drawings, poetry, etc--Something can be sexual without being erotic or arousing. Especially in the case of an artist "bearing their soul;" that seems icky to me. That's not something meant to be sullied.
I know that it's a critical of me because I'm SO kinky in so many ways... But those are some really tame things that just cross the line for me, even though they shouldn't be that big of a deal. Has anyone else had this experience? Are there any "tame" (or not so tame) things that cross the line for you, for any reason? These could be things that you don't like it that other people do OR things that you just refuse to do yourself.
Note; This thread isn't meant to be a bashing session on any fetish, by any means. This could be a potentially be a touchy subject, so if something makes you feel a little icky, try not to be too harsh about it!
