Why is it so hard to find a cougar?

The cougar cannot be hunted down, she'll find you.

Makes me laugh...
I could be called a cougar, and at times I am. Right now - I'm mostly well behaved.

Today though - I smiled at someone on the freeway. He reacted so much that I unrolled my window (he did first) blew him a kiss and then decided the whole damn world was driving too slow.

Damn fool child chased me. He chased me off the freeway giving short live to the idea that I might actually stop for a snack! Then I changed freeways - if he wants to chase me as long as my commute I'd find the cops!

Yeh I agree there are some weirdos out there. But what I am saying is I am 27 yrs old actually turning 28 I have surfed most my life away with the whole sponsership thing and dream of making it big. At this time I was very good at getting girls my age really good at ones younger which I have and cannot go for, but now that I have a good carrer and surf when I can without the hastles of contests I don't have that reputation that would help before. + I was not really finding what I wanted. I am in good physical shape and have (don't mean to sound vain) a very good looking face, almost every girl or women even some men always say that I look like Heath Ledger or before Val Kilmer got fat and gross.

Know that I have missed my chance twice with 2 very good cougars, (maybe my brain was fried from the sun and salt) I don't get the look anymore from these older women. I am not very go get her kind of guy mainly because I never had to be and my personality stays hidden untill engaged.

Sorry for the letter, I wouldn't be the guy wistling or blowing kisses to a women is there subtle hints that I may be able to look for then try to talk to them?

This one goes out to all cougars who responded. I don't know why but I always prefer an older women. Thanks XX