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Contributor: CRAZYSEXYONE CRAZYSEXYONE
What would you do if you found out that your partner/ spouse/ gf/bf were having fantasies of your very good friend? Would you try to keep them away from each other? would you trust them? Would you tell your friend?
06/02/2012
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Contributor: Bex1331 Bex1331
I wouldn't care, then again I'm not even a little jealous, it would depend on the friend if I'd tell them, if I thought it would make them uncomfortable I wouldn't tell them but otherwise sure.
06/02/2012
Contributor: CRAZYSEXYONE CRAZYSEXYONE
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Originally posted by Bex1331
I wouldn't care, then again I'm not even a little jealous, it would depend on the friend if I'd tell them, if I thought it would make them uncomfortable I wouldn't tell them but otherwise sure.
I am not that jealous but it would make me feel uncomfortble around them both for some reason
06/03/2012
Contributor: js250 js250
As long as it was only a fantasy, NOT a crush, it would not bother me enough to monitor the situation. If he started acting more like a person with a crush or ever tried to act on it....God help him!!! Paybacks are a bitch, and the bitch's name is Steff!! (me)
06/04/2012
Contributor: amazon amazon
Trust is key. But I would hope it doesn't grow.
06/04/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by js250
As long as it was only a fantasy, NOT a crush, it would not bother me enough to monitor the situation. If he started acting more like a person with a crush or ever tried to act on it....God help him!!! Paybacks are a bitch, and the bitch's name ... more
THIS! (Only my name isn't Steff. '))

My husband has told me he finds certain women attractive, but I TRUST him and know nothing would ever happen. Nothing has ever happened in more than 20 years (When we were in a Open Relationship that was different, but we NEVER dated each other's friends. That would be so tacky!) He has a wandering eye, but his hands and his dick stay with ME!

It never bothered me, as I find other people attractive as well, but would never act on it.

Don't "monitor" anything. Nothing is less attractive than a clingy, needy, hyper alert partner.

If it bothers you, ask him not to tell you these things anymore. If you TRUST him it isn't a problem. If you don't trust him, you have some thinking to do...
06/04/2012
Contributor: lilgrump lilgrump
I don't think he would ever act on anything, so it doesn't really bother me. Now would I want to hear all of the dirty details? That depends LOL
06/04/2012
Contributor: Mr. Tickle and Giggle Mr. Tickle and Giggle
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Originally posted by CRAZYSEXYONE
What would you do if you found out that your partner/ spouse/ gf/bf were having fantasies of your very good friend? Would you try to keep them away from each other? would you trust them? Would you tell your friend?
i would not tell friend i would talk to mate. how did you find out they were having fantasies about your friend? Why are they having fantasies about your friend? There are so many questions that I would need answers to before I could make decision on what I would do.
06/04/2012
Contributor: CRAZYSEXYONE CRAZYSEXYONE
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Originally posted by js250
As long as it was only a fantasy, NOT a crush, it would not bother me enough to monitor the situation. If he started acting more like a person with a crush or ever tried to act on it....God help him!!! Paybacks are a bitch, and the bitch's name ... more
lol agreed
06/04/2012
Contributor: CRAZYSEXYONE CRAZYSEXYONE
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Originally posted by Mr. Tickle and Giggle
i would not tell friend i would talk to mate. how did you find out they were having fantasies about your friend? Why are they having fantasies about your friend? There are so many questions that I would need answers to before I could make decision on ... more
Just things he has said about certain people in my life. Some of my friends are really attractive shit if i were a male i would be all over them to...okay maybe I should say if i was not with anyone...and they were open...lol i would be all over them.
06/13/2012