I have a question? My husband has stated that he would like to add an extra person to our fantasies! I was totally shocked! He stated he doesn't care if it is one person or a couple! I have never done anything like this do I need your help on telling me how when and how to get started and any advice you could give on completing his fantasy! I have never been with a female before so I don't know what or how to do what I need to do! less

The wife and I have talked about doing this in the past. It was before we were married. However, I had pushed for having another guy. I get turned on by the idea of everything being for her pleasure. We did attempt with a friend of ours, but he was unaware of out intentions. She was successful in turning him on. Ended with us having sex in another room. He could see her and she watched him masturbate. He could see her from the waist up with nothing on top. She did say that she enjoyed being watched during that time. We never did go through, but do simulate it with toys (thank you Eden). Maybe try with toys first to simulate an encounter and see where things go from there. Just make sure that both of you have any jealousy issues resolved prior. Also both need to have equal say in who is picked to join. less