I've read many a post about couples (not necessary married) wanting to add/try having a 3nd person join them in bed. Also heard of some wanting to engage in group sex.

So I wonder, is this more a female's desire/fantasy or a male's ?
What's your opinion? And also please let us know what your SO would say. less

I think most of the time this is a male fantasy, however, I have no information or data to prove this. This is purely just my $.02.

I honestly don't know how I would feel if my partner suggested it to me. I'm assuming she would suggest a mfm setup and not the fmf type. The thought of another person's hands roaming all over her body, touching,caressing, fondling and kissing her while I do the same is interesting, but, I will leave that to the professionals. As far as penetration goes in the mfm setup, I think I'd get jealous but not enough to want to beat the Sh#t out of him and I know that she isn't ready for a dual input setup.

If I could only clone myself then there would be no problem with a mfm setup and when done, just reabsorb my clone. Science needs to get on that ASAP!

In the other type, fmf, that just seems like a lot of work. Not only do you have to please one woman you have to satisfy both. We won't even talk about who gets the "prize" when its time for the male to come... How does one decide that?! Too much to think about! less

I've read many a post about couples (not necessary married) wanting to add/try having a 3nd person join them in bed. Also heard of some wanting to engage in group sex.

So I wonder, is this more a female's desire/fantasy or a male's ?
What's your opinion? And also please let us know what your SO would say. less

I really feel that the desire of it could go either way. I've heard, for the most part, an equal amount of women saying that they have thought about it as compared to men. My husband and I are both very outgoing sexually. He wanted to do it, but was very hesitant and scared initially. We laid down some ground rules and went ahead and did it once he felt comfortable about it. It is something that we both enjoy, and it has helped to spice up our marriage. With 3 children and being together for 14 years, it is necessary to try new things to keep it interesting. less

I think most of the time this is a male fantasy, however, I have no information or data to prove this. This is purely just my $.02.

I honestly don't know how I would feel if my partner suggested it to me. I'm assuming she would suggest a mfm setup and not the fmf type. The thought of another person's hands roaming all over her body, touching,caressing, fondling and kissing her while I do the same is interesting, but, I will leave that to the professionals. As far as penetration goes in the mfm setup, I think I'd get jealous but not enough to want to beat the Sh#t out of him and I know that she isn't ready for a dual input setup.

If I could only clone myself then there would be no problem with a mfm setup and when done, just reabsorb my clone. Science needs to get on that ASAP!

In the other type, fmf, that just seems like a lot of work. Not only do you have to please one woman you have to satisfy both. We won't even talk about who gets the "prize" when its time for the male to come... How does one decide that?! Too much to think about! less

I really feel that the desire of it could go either way. I've heard, for the most part, an equal amount of women saying that they have thought about it as compared to men. My husband and I are both very outgoing sexually. He wanted to do it, but was very hesitant and scared initially. We laid down some ground rules and went ahead and did it once he felt comfortable about it. It is something that we both enjoy, and it has helped to spice up our marriage. With 3 children and being together for 14 years, it is necessary to try new things to keep it interesting. less

If my wife was interested I would go for mfm or fmf. I have fantisized about sucking cock,eating her out as she is being fucked and being split roasted ( her with a strap on ) or even being fucked while I eat her out. With two women I would like to try one facesitting while the other is riding cowgirl so they can make out. All sorts of possibilitys. less

and may I ask . What happens to the party after you cum. Even if able to get it up a few times more the two females probably want to continue. Perhaps they should plan ahead and each bring strapons.

Now that brings up more possibilities . Are you into pegging
Now consider all the possible dynamics less

You certainly may ask. I am not a selfish lover so I would continue to watch before and after. Definatly into pegging.My wife only participates because it drives me wild with pleasure and I cum like never before. I really wish she would take the DOM role and possibly get off herself. Something about that forceful dirty talk thats a huge turn-on. No matter what we are doing I always make sure she gets off once or multiple times before its my turn. It is very important to keep your lover happy. If sex was constantly one sided or the same over and over people would become disenterested. I want my lovers to crave sex with me because they know it will be enjoyable for them. less

So if FMF, would you allow the two females to peg you also. Extends the session. Before or after. And if they want more, can use the strapons on each other.

Now,imo, that would quite a party . Something all of you will remember. ....and crave again.

If it happens, please share with us. less

I have to confess. Another person ( female) mentioned she,her bf,gf,gf'sbf and 2 other gfs do this.
Not fantasy but on a regular basis. I m not sure if the men enjoy it or not. Most likely they do.
Oh, just remembered , the guys don't get to bang the gals. Just clean up. The gals do bang them in the a_ _ and each other w the strapons.
Where does the light bulb and number appear. Perhaps you requested an alert on a thread less

We have had success adding a bi-female friend to our sex life. And yes, it's her idea. She basically only has one rule, anything goes but intercourse with her man. Has worked out great. Sometimes a small rule like that can take the pressure off the situation. less