Adding another person or group sex

Adding another person or group sex

OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
OH&W, Lovebears
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I've read many a post about couples (not necessary married) wanting to add/try having a 3nd person join them in bed. Also heard of some wanting to engage in group sex.

So I wonder, is this more a female's desire/fantasy or a male's ?
What's your opinion? And also please let us know what your SO would say.
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Andykh Andykh
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
I've read many a post about couples (not necessary married) wanting to add/try having a 3nd person join them in bed. Also heard of some wanting to engage in group sex.

So I wonder, is this more a female's desire/fantasy or a ...
As far as desire/fantasy I believe that could go either way probably both. My wife would most likely say heck no even tho she told me she was once propositioned by a couple to join them but said she never did. I've been in a 3some and to me it wasn't that great. Maybe it was because it was my ex and a friend of hers which I think she wanted it more than me
07/15/2016
Inquisitor Inquisitor
I think most of the time this is a male fantasy, however, I have no information or data to prove this. This is purely just my $.02.

I honestly don't know how I would feel if my partner suggested it to me. I'm assuming she would suggest a mfm setup and not the fmf type. The thought of another person's hands roaming all over her body, touching,caressing, fondling and kissing her while I do the same is interesting, but, I will leave that to the professionals. As far as penetration goes in the mfm setup, I think I'd get jealous but not enough to want to beat the Sh#t out of him and I know that she isn't ready for a dual input setup.

If I could only clone myself then there would be no problem with a mfm setup and when done, just reabsorb my clone. Science needs to get on that ASAP!

In the other type, fmf, that just seems like a lot of work. Not only do you have to please one woman you have to satisfy both. We won't even talk about who gets the "prize" when its time for the male to come... How does one decide that?! Too much to think about!
07/16/2016
Andykh Andykh
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
I think most of the time this is a male fantasy, however, I have no information or data to prove this. This is purely just my $.02.

I honestly don't know how I would feel if my partner suggested it to me. I'm assuming she would ...
I couldn't have said it better myself. Inq u are spot on it.
07/17/2016
Deja-vu Dream Deja-vu Dream
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
I've read many a post about couples (not necessary married) wanting to add/try having a 3nd person join them in bed. Also heard of some wanting to engage in group sex.

So I wonder, is this more a female's desire/fantasy or a ...
I really feel that the desire of it could go either way. I've heard, for the most part, an equal amount of women saying that they have thought about it as compared to men. My husband and I are both very outgoing sexually. He wanted to do it, but was very hesitant and scared initially. We laid down some ground rules and went ahead and did it once he felt comfortable about it. It is something that we both enjoy, and it has helped to spice up our marriage. With 3 children and being together for 14 years, it is necessary to try new things to keep it interesting.
07/17/2016
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by Andykh
I couldn't have said it better myself. Inq u are spot on it.
Thanks Andykh!
07/17/2016
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by Deja-vu Dream
I really feel that the desire of it could go either way. I've heard, for the most part, an equal amount of women saying that they have thought about it as compared to men. My husband and I are both very outgoing sexually. He wanted to do it, but ...
I'm just curious and feel free not to answer but, how did you set this up? Was it 2 men or 2 women and how did you both handle things after it all went down?
07/17/2016
Andykh Andykh
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
Thanks Andykh!
Anytime
07/17/2016
symbiasin symbiasin
Quote:
Originally posted by Inquisitor
I think most of the time this is a male fantasy, however, I have no information or data to prove this. This is purely just my $.02.

I honestly don't know how I would feel if my partner suggested it to me. I'm assuming she would ...
Inq. , (beating the sh#t out of someone) lol. Plus reabsorbing your clone? another lol

I think it's more fantasy stuff for both.
07/17/2016
wideopenmale wideopenmale
Key thing. It is sex not love. Watching SO getting pleased by another can trigger some weird stuff.You have to be very secure in the fact you love each other and you are just using the third to pleasure you SO.

Watching wife get off on strangers big cock was weird,little intimidating and hot as hell. The way she fucked for next 4 or 5 months made it even hotter and is why we have been doing it for long time.

Group laughing maybe easier for some. Watching other bounce from parent to partner and all just having fun and carrying on can be huge turn on.n Watching your SO get it from another while watching you fuck another woman can be damn hot. Having room full watch you fuck someone is damn hot in first place.Well for me anyway,but the I am exhibitionist and love being star center of attention. Room full watching you cum on woman and then your wife clean her will have back ready for action before you finish cumming.
Jul 29, 12:50 pm
merc41 merc41
If my wife was interested I would go for mfm or fmf. I have fantisized about sucking cock,eating her out as she is being fucked and being split roasted ( her with a strap on ) or even being fucked while I eat her out. With two women I would like to try one facesitting while the other is riding cowgirl so they can make out. All sorts of possibilitys.
Jul 29, 5:18 pm
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Deja-vu Dream
I really feel that the desire of it could go either way. I've heard, for the most part, an equal amount of women saying that they have thought about it as compared to men. My husband and I are both very outgoing sexually. He wanted to do it, but ...
Definitely necessary to keep love/ sex life interesting. Variety is the spice of life,as the saying goes.
Jul 29, 8:48 pm
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by merc41
If my wife was interested I would go for mfm or fmf. I have fantisized about sucking cock,eating her out as she is being fucked and being split roasted ( her with a strap on ) or even being fucked while I eat her out. With two women I would like to ...
and may I ask . What happens to the party after you cum. Even if able to get it up a few times more the two females probably want to continue. Perhaps they should plan ahead and each bring strapons.

Now that brings up more possibilities . Are you into pegging
Now consider all the possible dynamics
Jul 29, 8:59 pm
merc41 merc41
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
and may I ask . What happens to the party after you cum. Even if able to get it up a few times more the two females probably want to continue. Perhaps they should plan ahead and each bring strapons.

Now that brings up more possibilities . ...
You certainly may ask. I am not a selfish lover so I would continue to watch before and after. Definatly into pegging.My wife only participates because it drives me wild with pleasure and I cum like never before. I really wish she would take the DOM role and possibly get off herself. Something about that forceful dirty talk thats a huge turn-on. No matter what we are doing I always make sure she gets off once or multiple times before its my turn. It is very important to keep your lover happy. If sex was constantly one sided or the same over and over people would become disenterested. I want my lovers to crave sex with me because they know it will be enjoyable for them.
Aug 1, 6:13 pm
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by merc41
You certainly may ask. I am not a selfish lover so I would continue to watch before and after. Definatly into pegging.My wife only participates because it drives me wild with pleasure and I cum like never before. I really wish she would take the DOM ...
So if FMF, would you allow the two females to peg you also. Extends the session. Before or after. And if they want more, can use the strapons on each other.

Now,imo, that would quite a party . Something all of you will remember. ....and crave again.

If it happens, please share with us.
Aug 2, 11:32 am
merc41 merc41
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
So if FMF, would you allow the two females to peg you also. Extends the session. Before or after. And if they want more, can use the strapons on each other.

Now,imo, that would quite a party . Something all of you will remember. ....and crave ...
I can only wish it would happen. WOW would that be a great session.
Aug 2, 5:22 pm
merc41 merc41
I am relitivley new. What does the lightbulb with a number mean next to a subject?
Aug 2, 5:27 pm
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by merc41
I can only wish it would happen. WOW would that be a great session.
I have to confess. Another person ( female) mentioned she,her bf,gf,gf'sbf and 2 other gfs do this.
Not fantasy but on a regular basis. I m not sure if the men enjoy it or not. Most likely they do.
Oh, just remembered , the guys don't get to bang the gals. Just clean up. The gals do bang them in the a_ _ and each other w the strapons.
Where does the light bulb and number appear. Perhaps you requested an alert on a thread
Aug 2, 5:57 pm
merc41 merc41
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
I have to confess. Another person ( female) mentioned she,her bf,gf,gf'sbf and 2 other gfs do this.
Not fantasy but on a regular basis. I m not sure if the men enjoy it or not. Most likely they do.
Oh, just remembered , the guys ...
Right next to the number of posts. I don'tknow if I could NOT bang the girls.
Aug 3, 6:59 pm
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by merc41
Right next to the number of posts. I don'tknow if I could NOT bang the girls.
If I understand your question about the light bulb and #. It could be notifications of # of new posts on that thread. First ones you committed on. If a thread doesn't displays it could be you have not participated in it.
Aug 4, 4:49 pm
Wvlovers Wvlovers
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
I've read many a post about couples (not necessary married) wanting to add/try having a 3nd person join them in bed. Also heard of some wanting to engage in group sex.

So I wonder, is this more a female's desire/fantasy or a ...
We have had success adding a bi-female friend to our sex life. And yes, it's her idea. She basically only has one rule, anything goes but intercourse with her man. Has worked out great. Sometimes a small rule like that can take the pressure off the situation.
Aug 8, 3:51 pm
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Wvlovers
We have had success adding a bi-female friend to our sex life. And yes, it's her idea. She basically only has one rule, anything goes but intercourse with her man. Has worked out great. Sometimes a small rule like that can take the pressure off ...
Does this Bi- female just use own body parts, lips tongue, fingers, etc or also bring a strapon or two

And what's the male's role. Foreplay and/or clean up ?

Do you guys do this often or on regular basis?
Aug 9, 2:28 pm
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