OK, I don't currently have a lover, nor have I had one in the past who asked for something I wouldn't want to do. If I am with someone, I'd likely want to try whatever they are interested in because I want to please them. So, I can only speculate, but there are things I will not do and one involves any kind of serious pain on my part. As for other stuff, I don't think I'd mind golden showers (I wouldn't get turned on though), but I will not even consider anything involving feces, vomit, or blood (unless it's menstrual blood), animals, children, unconsenting people, or paraphilic infantilism such as acting like a baby and wearing diapers and taking a bottle, etc., so someone can take care of you. Sploshing however, I am willing to consider, but it would not arouse me.

No piercing, no electrocuting, no asphyxiation and no extreme bondage where I can't move at all. (I've never done anything bondage before, but I don't think I'd like being restrained at all.) No sensory deprivation stuff, either. I am sure there are other activities I would not want to do that involve other paraphilias (just check out that list, ), but I can't imagine I would likely come across them. Then again, who knows what people are hiding? I am pretty open-minded, but I am more vanilla/mainstream than I thought after reading some of those listed paraphilias!

Which has he pulled out???

Nope,I'm more of the freaky one in the relationship. He's more mellow, if anything I'm the one getting turned down with a " maybe sometime" or "I'm not interested "

My husband and I are about equal with our "kink" in the bedroom. So far, everything that we have thought about individually and discussed--if we haven't tried it out immediately, we have kind of made a plan for it in the near future. So, my answer to this would be no.