Do you "just say no"?

Do you "just say no"?

Bignuf Bignuf
Is there any adult activity your lover wishes you would do with them, but you just plain will not? What is it and why do you "just say no"? Just wondering.
05/13/2014
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edeneve edeneve
I'm still waiting for him to pull ALL of his secrets out of his 'sexual bag'. it's been slow going, but I must say, quite fun!!!
05/13/2014
Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
Is there any adult activity your lover wishes you would do with them, but you just plain will not? What is it and why do you "just say no"? Just wondering.
OK, I don't currently have a lover, nor have I had one in the past who asked for something I wouldn't want to do. If I am with someone, I'd likely want to try whatever they are interested in because I want to please them. So, I can only speculate, but there are things I will not do and one involves any kind of serious pain on my part. As for other stuff, I don't think I'd mind golden showers (I wouldn't get turned on though), but I will not even consider anything involving feces, vomit, or blood (unless it's menstrual blood), animals, children, unconsenting people, or paraphilic infantilism such as acting like a baby and wearing diapers and taking a bottle, etc., so someone can take care of you. Sploshing however, I am willing to consider, but it would not arouse me.

No piercing, no electrocuting, no asphyxiation and no extreme bondage where I can't move at all. (I've never done anything bondage before, but I don't think I'd like being restrained at all.) No sensory deprivation stuff, either. I am sure there are other activities I would not want to do that involve other paraphilias (just check out that list, ), but I can't imagine I would likely come across them. Then again, who knows what people are hiding? I am pretty open-minded, but I am more vanilla/mainstream than I thought after reading some of those listed paraphilias!
05/14/2014
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by edeneve
I'm still waiting for him to pull ALL of his secrets out of his 'sexual bag'. it's been slow going, but I must say, quite fun!!!
Which has he pulled out???
05/14/2014
Pete's Princess Pete's Princess
There is nothing that my husband would suggest that I would say no to. We are on the same page as far as what are absolute off limit things are. Besides, he could most likely sweet talk me into just about anything because I just love him so much.
05/15/2014
frisky069 frisky069
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
Is there any adult activity your lover wishes you would do with them, but you just plain will not? What is it and why do you "just say no"? Just wondering.
Nope,I'm more of the freaky one in the relationship. He's more mellow, if anything I'm the one getting turned down with a " maybe sometime" or "I'm not interested "
Nov 6, 12:21 pm
Perspicace mais érotique Perspicace mais érotique
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
Is there any adult activity your lover wishes you would do with them, but you just plain will not? What is it and why do you "just say no"? Just wondering.
My husband and I are about equal with our "kink" in the bedroom. So far, everything that we have thought about individually and discussed--if we haven't tried it out immediately, we have kind of made a plan for it in the near future. So, my answer to this would be no.
Nov 7, 12:00 am
madame macbeth madame macbeth
I am not for golden showers or butt play on my part. I mean if he is willing i will be happy to accommodate him but mine is not up for grabs.
I am also not for extreme exhibitionism. Seriously no one needs to see that.
Nov 7, 11:25 am
Perspicace mais érotique Perspicace mais érotique
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Originally posted by madame macbeth
I am not for golden showers or butt play on my part. I mean if he is willing i will be happy to accommodate him but mine is not up for grabs.
I am also not for extreme exhibitionism. Seriously no one needs to see that.
'Seriously no one needs to see that.'
That's funny! But be proud and confident!! I'm sure you are beautiful!!
Nov 7, 12:17 pm
VanillaFreeSex VanillaFreeSex
I won't do anal. I've done it before and know that I do not like it. He used to complain and didn't understand why I wouldn't "do it for him" since I have done it for other people. Why would I do something that I know I absolutely don't like? He has backed off now though.
Nov 7, 1:04 pm
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