He knows I use this site and that I ordered a new toy but ODDLY enough I've never really used toys in this relationship (and its been over 5 years so I am VERY toy deprived) BUT the new toy is kinda big.... and black.... buuuut I think he will love it on his special spot! would it be better to show it to him BEFORE bringing it into the bedroom or just be all " close your eyes baby" LOL
How to introduce a new toy?
you should talk with him first. find out what he thinks about using them before trying to make him use one. that could end up badly.
I agree with married with children - show him the toy first - especially when it's a big toy!
Since he knows you have toys and has never suggested using them together, he may be a bit intimidated. Bringing out a big toy for the first toy might not be the best way to go. Perhaps start with something smaller and less intimidating. I would definitely talk to him about your desire to add toys before bringing them into the bedroom.
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