He'd never do it... Then again, he doesn't "do" a lot of things.
Does your husband/male partner like anal penetration?
02/02/2012
He doesn't particularly care for it, but he doesn't hate it either
02/23/2012
he would never try that. That"s kind of weird.
02/24/2012
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He wouldn't ever try it.
Originally posted by
Sera
I've heard of some men liking it, but mine doesn't, and I'm wondering if yours does. Why does he like it? How does he like it? How was he first introduced to it?
02/24/2012
shes likes it
06/29/2012
I love it! Any kind of anal stimulation. As far as being pegged I have not yet just a couple toys and plugs!
06/30/2012
He would never try it and I'm fine with that.
07/01/2012
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He loves it, just not all the time. More intense orgasms and when you stimulate the prostate the fun really begins! We have tried pegging but we mostly use toys or plugs. If he finishes first, a little backside play can fix that. For us, it began with just touching or rubbing and slowly moved on to penetration. Just remember to use enough lube.
Originally posted by
Sera
I've heard of some men liking it, but mine doesn't, and I'm wondering if yours does. Why does he like it? How does he like it? How was he first introduced to it?
07/01/2012
never tried it
07/07/2012
nope
07/07/2012
he would never try it
07/07/2012
We're both curious about it and are going to try it soon.
07/07/2012
Lol, well we're just starting out with prostate stimulation so he's giving it a chance.
07/07/2012
My partner likes it, but is still adjusting to it. We haven't done too much with it yet, we're going slow.
07/08/2012
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He refuses no matter what I say.
Originally posted by
Sera
I've heard of some men liking it, but mine doesn't, and I'm wondering if yours does. Why does he like it? How does he like it? How was he first introduced to it?
07/08/2012
he likes it but i dont lol
07/08/2012
We've been getting more and more into this. In our early years together, anal was a sort of taboo not to be discussed. But my partner has opened up to me so much and has finally decided that it doesn't make him gay but rather it makes him happy or at least happier!
I just picked out a harness. It will be our first and he placed the order yesterday! We're both excited. We've been playing around with fingers and toys for now. Looks like pegging might be on our horizon!
I just picked out a harness. It will be our first and he placed the order yesterday! We're both excited. We've been playing around with fingers and toys for now. Looks like pegging might be on our horizon!
07/08/2012
he is always trying to do it on me but hell no i wont let him. its way too intimidating for me, specially with him he's a little too big for that.
07/10/2012
I love it and my wife loves watching me use toys on myself. It really turns her on, but she's hesitant to use a strap on though.
08/04/2012
He would try it in a flash! Since that is forbidden territory in our house I better not catch him trying it!!
08/10/2012
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Also- on the second one- having not eaten for a few hours before hand really helps with their being less of a chance of surprise. Gloves and condoms are wonderful things to use in the case of anal play.
Originally posted by
ScottA
There are ways to help. Offhand, there are three common reasons people have for being unsure about giving their male partner anal stimulation. The first is "does this mean he's gay", and the answer is simple. No.
The second major ... more
The second major ... more
There are ways to help. Offhand, there are three common reasons people have for being unsure about giving their male partner anal stimulation. The first is "does this mean he's gay", and the answer is simple. No.
The second major issue is cleanliness/hygiene. This can be a bigger deal, but it's not that hard to solve. First, don't spring anal play on anyone as a "surprise", let them know ahead of time so they can go to the bathroom and make sure their bottoms are cooperating, and this will go a long way to minimizing yuckiness. Additionally you can put on a glove, which makes any mess easy to handle. If you're still concerned you can discuss the possibility of your partner taking a small enema/anal douche a hour or so before play to wash anything out of the rectum.
The third concern is one of hurting your partner. It's good to be careful - you can do damage if you are careless in anal play. Use safe toys, and if you're using fingers make sure that any sharp fingernails are either removed or guarded (wrap them in cotton balls and put on gloves). Use plenty of lube, go slow and have foreplay, and pay attention to what he's saying both verbally and nonverbally (but don't stop to over-analyze or do the "irritating waiter thing" and keep on asking if everything's OK - if it isn't it will be pretty obvious). less
The second major issue is cleanliness/hygiene. This can be a bigger deal, but it's not that hard to solve. First, don't spring anal play on anyone as a "surprise", let them know ahead of time so they can go to the bathroom and make sure their bottoms are cooperating, and this will go a long way to minimizing yuckiness. Additionally you can put on a glove, which makes any mess easy to handle. If you're still concerned you can discuss the possibility of your partner taking a small enema/anal douche a hour or so before play to wash anything out of the rectum.
The third concern is one of hurting your partner. It's good to be careful - you can do damage if you are careless in anal play. Use safe toys, and if you're using fingers make sure that any sharp fingernails are either removed or guarded (wrap them in cotton balls and put on gloves). Use plenty of lube, go slow and have foreplay, and pay attention to what he's saying both verbally and nonverbally (but don't stop to over-analyze or do the "irritating waiter thing" and keep on asking if everything's OK - if it isn't it will be pretty obvious). less
08/10/2012
never never
08/15/2012
He loves it
11/12/2012
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he's just getting into it
Originally posted by
Sera
I've heard of some men liking it, but mine doesn't, and I'm wondering if yours does. Why does he like it? How does he like it? How was he first introduced to it?
11/17/2012
My husband...no way!! I have had one partner in the past who did. I am glad my husband doesn't!
11/20/2012
As a male in a long term relationship with my girlfriend, I never really considered anal play until recently. I started exploring a bit with some of my girlfriends toys, and she supports me exploring, but I cannot seem to find the pleasure in it. Still looking forward to seeing what everyone is raving about. I'm not ashamed of it, just a little bummed (haha punny)that I've not felt pleasure from it yet.
11/22/2012
absolutely does
11/22/2012
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my husband enjoys it. and has asked to try pegging
Originally posted by
Sera
I've heard of some men liking it, but mine doesn't, and I'm wondering if yours does. Why does he like it? How does he like it? How was he first introduced to it?
11/23/2012
He does, and I love giving it to him!
11/23/2012
I like it
11/23/2012