Is it ok to have toys shaped like porn stars' sex organs in a long-term relationship?

Contributor: Blakiepoo Blakiepoo
I think the appeal of these toys is that you get to imagine having sex with the porn star more realistically, or to feel a little closer to them.

I guess it depends on why you get the toy and what you think about when using it. I might feel insecure if my partner was excited because of the porn star rather than the cock.
12/21/2010
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
I answered yes, though my wife wanted me to throw the box away that had her picture on it - a reasonable compromise.
12/31/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by Shumway
I agree, It's all relative to the individual or couples' points of view.

I don't think it's really about sensitivity or not though, it's more to do with your first statement... it may be that the person who has a problem ... more
I would have to say to those people, "Get a grip! Even if you heat the lube and have serious fantasy it's NOT even close to the real thing!" That being said it shows a remarkable sensitivity on your part that you are concerned about your partner's feelings on the matter. Should you find you prefer the lump of silicone to your wife then there IS a problem and if she is feeling neglected in favor of an inanimate object, again, serious problem. There's a point where you have to let your partner deal with their own irrational fears and concerns but I do believe that there has to be a give and take as well. Not pushing boundaries prematurely and being sensitive enough to let it be until a later time or later discussion shows a loving relationship and a loving partner.
12/31/2010
Contributor: Hockeytown9 Hockeytown9
No issue with that here. Besides, those things are rarely true to size etc. At least that is what I hear.
12/31/2010
Contributor: MR Chickhabit MR Chickhabit
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Originally posted by Hallmar82
I answered yes, though my wife wanted me to throw the box away that had her picture on it - a reasonable compromise.
maybe i'll get you in some sort of trouble. im sorry.

but cant you just look her up on the internet? why throw away perfectly good porn?
01/01/2011
Contributor: sweet seduction sweet seduction
I could care less, a toy is a toy
01/05/2011
Contributor: lamira lamira
Yes, I think it's okay. I'm buying my partner a fake vagina and ass so he can please himself. We are in a semi-long distance relationship and I only see him so often during the school year. I think it's only fair that if I can have vibrators, he can have a fake vagina and ass.
02/05/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
That would make me uncomfortable, with comparisons etc
02/05/2011
Contributor: ImSteve ImSteve
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Originally posted by Shumway
Here's one for you married couples and life partners. I've been seeing a lot of toys on the site molded from porn stars' genitalia. I'm curious what people think about owning or their spouse owning one when in a long term relationship.
Does anyone really think there's any sense of realism? Anything "lifelike" is molded from someone. I can't imagine actually fantasizing over a porn star - there's nothing real about porn movies or their "stars".
02/07/2011
Contributor: CPTInsanity CPTInsanity
I think that its kind of sexy in a weird way. When it comes down to it, its just a dildo. But it is fun to play around with fantasies. My wife doesn't even know who these people are, its all just about the fantasy of having sex with a pornstar thats cool. I enjoy watching her get pleasure from some of these pretty large organs.
02/23/2011
Contributor: boatgirl boatgirl
We don't watch porn, so we have no idea who these people are - so for us there's not anything "weird". It's about size, materials, smell, etc. If it works for us, it works. (some of those dildos are frightening!) We just got the Clone a Willy, though, so after we make HIS mold, who knows?! (can't wait!)
02/23/2011
Contributor: vegan.guy vegan.guy
Ehh, I don't know. I think it would make me a bit uncomfortable, but I just don't know how much.
02/24/2011
Contributor: Istanbull Istanbull
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Originally posted by Shumway
Here's one for you married couples and life partners. I've been seeing a lot of toys on the site molded from porn stars' genitalia. I'm curious what people think about owning or their spouse owning one when in a long term relationship.
I answered #4 because my wife doesn't like me making love to my UR3 pussy. But she doesn't want me to make love to her either so I don't care what she thinks.
02/28/2011
Contributor: Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
Don't want or need one. But I would hope if I did my partner wouldn't be that insecure. I usually just look at them and think. "Oh, I prefer that one because its a better color!"
02/28/2011
Contributor: Miss Jenn Miss Jenn
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Originally posted by Shumway
Here's one for you married couples and life partners. I've been seeing a lot of toys on the site molded from porn stars' genitalia. I'm curious what people think about owning or their spouse owning one when in a long term relationship.
Personally, I would not like it. I know its not real. But I dont want him fucking any other pussy but mine. Plain and simple. I know he would not care - I think hes soo cool like that. He doesnt get jealous like I do, and I love him so much for it. Maybe when I am older I wont be so jealous and wont care so much.. But for now, he wants mine, and mine alone. And I am happy for that..

SO for now, the answer is simple. No - I would not be alright with it.
02/28/2011
Contributor: Miss Jenn Miss Jenn
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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
It's all in the mind set. If you lust after these porn stars, then no it's not okay. If you just look at it for what it is, then it is totally okay. It goes the same for girls. If I wanted some other guys cock, real or in rubber, I would not ... more
Exactly, if u want the toy because you lust after the porn star it would not be right. IF its just because U want a realistic pussy, then get one that has no porn star name attached to it. Same for the dildos for the girls.
02/28/2011
Contributor: HoneyHoney HoneyHoney
Quote:
Originally posted by Shumway
Here's one for you married couples and life partners. I've been seeing a lot of toys on the site molded from porn stars' genitalia. I'm curious what people think about owning or their spouse owning one when in a long term relationship.
It's not like its the real thing lol
02/28/2011
Contributor: SapphirexIce SapphirexIce
I wouldn't care personally its just a toy so i mean why feel bad?
02/28/2011
Contributor: Mz.GreenEyez Mz.GreenEyez
If it feels good then go for it variety is great
03/15/2011
Contributor: minifreak minifreak
wouldnt make a difference I dont think
03/16/2011
Contributor: Love&War Love&War
Porn stars are stars for a reason! Why not have them, or a inanimate version of them, in our own bedroom.
03/21/2011
Contributor: w-o-name w-o-name
It is not real therefor it does not matter!
04/13/2011
Contributor: FREE MR PERRY FREE MR PERRY
Quote:
Originally posted by Shumway
Here's one for you married couples and life partners. I've been seeing a lot of toys on the site molded from porn stars' genitalia. I'm curious what people think about owning or their spouse owning one when in a long term relationship.
SURE WHY NOT SOUNDS LIKE FUN!!
04/14/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
it is just a toy, if yall use them then you should be fine with it
04/14/2011
Contributor: sexygoddess sexygoddess
Sure, why not!
04/15/2011
Contributor: purplekidney purplekidney
She: None of them have vaginas as nice as mine anyway.

He: Or as tasty
04/15/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
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Originally posted by Coralbell
For me it has nothing to do with whether they are molded from someone or not. I don't like any realistic toys. They just creep me out. I wouldn't make a big deal out of it if they wanted to have one, but I would prefer for them not to have one.
Same here! My parnter and I were JUST talking about this same exact topic! How cool. I thought I was the only one in the world who was a little weird about any realistic ones. Nice to know I'm not the only one.
04/19/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
This is crazy because I was just talking about this same thing with my parnter! I never knew that most dildos were molded or whatever from an actual penis! Lol. How stupid I felt, but I didn't know it til the other day.

Anyways, I've never cared for the realistic dildos because I really only care a lot about the vibes and stuff because I'm never away from my partner too long and when I really want to do it, he's there so I've never felt the need for one and it also just doesn't settle with me well for some personal reason. I don't think anything bad of them at all, but they are not for me. I'm more of a vibrator girl. And I feel like I wouldn't ever use a realistic dildo unless it was a "replacement" and I certainly would NEVER choose a fake one over my partners. No siree! So for me, it's not my thing.

Now for him, he's NOT into the male sex toys. I even told him that I found a thingy I guess it was a sleeve or whatever here on EF and it was clear with little pink balls inside. I figured it was for his pleasure, but as I've been reading I think they're for both. I asked him if he'd want the sleeve thingy and kind of thought it was a nice idea just to give him extra fun, but he was not liking the idea. He said he didn't want it. He's more of a sex only kind of guy. He never has liked the idea of masturbating, it really doesn't do much for him, I've even tried myself! It's just tiring and after an hour, I just don't care and neither does he so we just stick with sex, sometimes crazy stuff, but he just prefers doing it. I think I could warm him up to the idea of other things, but he absolutely refuses those pocket "pussy" things! I guess I am glad for that though, because then I'm not being replaced in any way. Now, if I turned it down a lot, I don't know how much refusing he'd do. Lol JK

He said he just doesn't like the idea of having sex with something that isn't real or something that's been made from another females privates. That does make me feel special though
04/19/2011
Contributor: HouseWench HouseWench
I see no reason to mind if he does, and I find it unlikely that I'd get one. I just haven't seen any I've really liked.
05/07/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
For us it's a non issue. It's not real and we're happy with each other.
05/07/2011