Is talking online with other women/men cheating?

Is talking online with other women/men cheating?

junnebug97 junnebug97
This happens often and curious about what people think. If you found your spouse chatting online or e-mail other women/men would you consider that cheating if they were hiding it from you?
05/07/2012
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Ryuson Ryuson
Quote:
Originally posted by junnebug97
This happens often and curious about what people think. If you found your spouse chatting online or e-mail other women/men would you consider that cheating if they were hiding it from you?
It depends on the relationship. In the relationship I have with my boyfriend? Yes (if it's sexual). Have I spoken with some people that don't consider having sex with other people? Yes. If it goes against the agreed rules of your relationship, it's cheating.
05/07/2012
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by junnebug97
This happens often and curious about what people think. If you found your spouse chatting online or e-mail other women/men would you consider that cheating if they were hiding it from you?
If either of my partners were hiding it from me then yes it would be cheating. Thankfully we have an understanding that we are allowed to have private relationships with others but we disclose that we ARE having a private relationship. Secrets we don't keep but privacy is allowed
05/07/2012
hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
It really depends. If you're having cybersex or relying on your e-buddy for emotional closeness and support without having cleared it with your partner, I think that's just as much cheating as if they were in the same room.

If you have opposite sex friends online that you have friendly conversations with, no.
05/07/2012
Vanille Vanille
I have friends whom I just have friendly convos with. If you're relying on your online friends for intimacy or such and you're hiding it from your partner, then yes, it is cheating.
05/07/2012
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
It's all about intent. If your exchanging information (like we do here on the forum) - then no there is nothing untoward about it. But if you searching for emotional or sexual fulfillment - then yes I'd say I consider that cheating.
05/07/2012
Ms. N Ms. N
As long as you are open about it with your partner, then it is fine.
05/07/2012
MistressDandelion MistressDandelion
Quote:
Originally posted by hyacinthgirl
It really depends. If you're having cybersex or relying on your e-buddy for emotional closeness and support without having cleared it with your partner, I think that's just as much cheating as if they were in the same room.

If you have ...
This
05/07/2012
RavenWings RavenWings
If you're keeping it secret you probably think it's wrong
05/07/2012
little miss kinky little miss kinky
If it's a secret then I'd definitely consider it cheating.
05/07/2012
Rossie Rossie
It really depends on what they're talking about.
05/07/2012
VelvetDragon VelvetDragon
Depends on the relationship agreements. In my relationship, I'm allowed to play online -- as long as it stays online.

However, that's a newer rule, it used to be against our relationship agreements. Breaking relationship agreements is cheating.
05/07/2012
froggiemoma froggiemoma
If romantically talking or hiding from your spouse , yes.
05/21/2012
CherryGryffon CherryGryffon
Quote:
Originally posted by junnebug97
This happens often and curious about what people think. If you found your spouse chatting online or e-mail other women/men would you consider that cheating if they were hiding it from you?
I think "Talking" is a loose term.

"Flirting" talking, yes. It's cheating.

"Friendship" talking, like "Dude let's play some Gears of War", no.
05/21/2012
TransMarc TransMarc
Quote:
Originally posted by hyacinthgirl
It really depends. If you're having cybersex or relying on your e-buddy for emotional closeness and support without having cleared it with your partner, I think that's just as much cheating as if they were in the same room.

If you have ...
Hmm, know why I call my online and real friends "friends"?
Because I can rely on them for emotional closeness and support :o
It's not the same as with a partner, but still... I guess there is something you didn't precise?
05/21/2012
Vixen2000 Vixen2000
Quote:
Originally posted by junnebug97
This happens often and curious about what people think. If you found your spouse chatting online or e-mail other women/men would you consider that cheating if they were hiding it from you?
Yes
05/22/2012
Mrs. Tickle and Giggle Mrs. Tickle and Giggle
Quote:
Originally posted by junnebug97
This happens often and curious about what people think. If you found your spouse chatting online or e-mail other women/men would you consider that cheating if they were hiding it from you?
YES!!!! hands down
05/23/2012
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