Is your spouse jealous of toys?

He likes the idea,but we don't use them as often together.

I'm the one who goes to all the trouble of earning points and/or forking up the money to buy them for her because I love using toys on/with her, or even just hearing about her experiences when she uses one while I'm away. I'm a little obsessed with her pleasure and I hope most guys share similar sentiments.

If I mention that a toy looks like fun he orders it. We have fun using them together and he encourages me to use them whenever!

My husband is the one who actually suggested we look a some toys. Do you think your husband would be more receptive if you asked him to use it on you? Tell him it turns you on knowing he is willing to do whatever gives you the biggest O, maybe he is viewing it as YOU pleasing yourself, not HIM pleasing you.

I have ran into this problem before with my ex husband and a few guys before him. I was always told I should use "him" instead of toys, well I take a lot to climax if I am not already super turned on. My ex husband started getting iffy and what not when I started reviewing toys for companies on blogs! I tried to incorporate him as much as possible an tried letting him use a toy on me however he wasn't gentle enough, even after I showed him how to use vibes an dhow to thrust them on me. It got to the point he would get mad if I went to the bathroom with my toy in the shower, personally it is about my pleasure whether they like it or not. No I wasn't trying to replace anyone with a vibe cause well they aren't warm with a beating heart which in some cases I probably would have been better off just with my toys. Either way those relationships ended for one reason or another. I have had a partner who preferred me only use my toys while he was away working, but I got him 2 pocket pussies that he used an enjoyed on his own while he was away. We used clitoral vibes and he used a vibrator on me once but was very iffy about it. I have had partners for and against my toys!! Luckily I now have a man who loves teasing me and pleasing me with my toys. I never hide the fact that I use them and I make it clear that I will use them no matter what. In some of my cases yes my partner wasn't all that grand in bed but I wasn't telling them that but the main reason I had my toys were to spice things up! To use during foreplay, so my advice to you is explain to your husband he is good enough (if he is), show him things that turn you on and explore your bodies together. I tried this myself and it failed in most cases, I know a lot of men get turned on by using toys on their other halves. You must keep in mind though that your pleasure is just as important as his.

My guy loves any and all toys, he finds them fun and sexy.

Sorry to hear that. I have never had that problem. The only toys he uses on him self is a ring, but he is more than happy to break out a toy to use on me. His philosophy is that he wants to give me as many orgasms as possible before he has his. So usually I have a few from him using toys on me and then all I want is him alone. He rather I have an orgasm from a toy than none at all.

Communication is key. Always be honest and open to each others feelings. I know occasionally he will not allow me to climax as a punishment (BDSM) but it does not seem like that is what he is practicing with you.

There should be an "other" option. My partner is ok with us having/using toys, but he does occasionally get jealous.

He is always bring out more toys than we need during sex...he loves toys!

My boyfriend loves our toys. In fact, we share a lot of them (using proper cleaning practices, of course).

My husband bought me most of the toys we have, so he is perfectly okay with me using them when he is around and when he isn't.

It was my husband's idea first to use sex toys on me!

He bought my first 4 or 5 sex toys. He wants me to come, by any means necessary. Sometimes I have a hard time, due to some hormonal issues, and toys help. He realized this before I did.

He thinks MY orgasms are as (sometimes more) important than his, so he'll do whatever it takes.

You may want to talk to your man and explain that sex toys aren't to "replace" him, but to add to the fun.

I think partners who are scared of sex toys are often feeling insecure. Let him know that he can "man" the toys to give you pleasure and that there is nothing to feel insecure about. Nobody ever left their partner for a sex toy! It's an intimate object.

Let him read the forums and see how many of us have stable, happy long term relationships, in part, because we all use sex toys regularly in our sex.

Wow this is a hard one. I do not have this problem at all with my hubby. you know what though they have a make your own penis kit and you and your husband can make it together and then maybe show him how much you are enjoying it during crafting,LOL.and when its done have him use it on you start off slow and maybe say his name a little while he is using it on you. also try to gradually let him see you with it and you can talk sexy and try to show him all the right areas you like. and make him comfortable with it. some men it takes baby steps. I hope it works for you hun

Glad that my husband has no problem with toys

My wife is shy when it comes to toys but really enjoys them, i bought her the first dildos she ever had, we have tried different things but she prefers a large realistic dildo as her favorite toy and really becomes aroused whenever I use it on her. She loves the bigger size toy for that full feeling and I'm fine with that, I love seeing her climax on her big dildo, it's a visual turn on for me.

That is incredibly sad..... My husband encourages me to use mine.

No only am I not jealous, I buy them for her.

We use toys with sex about 95% of the time.