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Contributor: tlaskowski tlaskowski 12/05/2011

so I want to know how often to you buy new toys and about how much a year you send on them.(points count for this) I noticed that since I have found eden I have made many more purches in the last month then I have in two years! And because of edens great points program I have spent to much! So what about you?

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Contributor: tlaskowski tlaskowski
how often do you buy toys? (avg)
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Contributor: Chul Chul
Not sure what to explain, really, but even with points, I don't have the money to just throw around for new purchases, even once a month. As much as I would like to, it's just not as possible and I'd prefer saving up for something I'd really like to try, you know? Now, if only I could purchase once a month...

But, I agree! Eden is a magnificent place. I love the points program and how much Eden gives back to its contributors. Love this place.
12/05/2011
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
On average, once a month or so.
12/05/2011
Contributor: eeep eeep
I have had the same experience as you, I have bought more toys in the couple months I have been using the Eden Points program than I used to in a year. Love EF and the community.
12/06/2011
Contributor: ToyGurl ToyGurl
It honestly depends. Sometimes I will buy twice a month or once a month... sometimes not at all.
12/06/2011
Contributor: bdvnt bdvnt
I've only been on EF since August 31st. I've placed five orders so far. I wouldn't have known that if this question hadn't been asked. Do I think that is a lot, yes. Do I care, no. I know I've spent a bit of money for these orders, but I'm more than satisfied with the return on my investment. The points program hasn't really had any bearing on my purchases or activity either. I really like this site, in all aspects. I'm sure I'll be a regular shopper here for a long time.
12/06/2011
Contributor: Mr.Zombie Mr.Zombie
It depends on what deals are going on or if my wife finds something she just has to have. On average, I'd say about twice a month. This month will be two, maybe even three. I am planning a surprise package for her for Christmas to give to her on our vacation.
12/06/2011
Contributor: Silverdrop Silverdrop
Since I live in the UK, I only buy from Eden when I have a review assignment, so that I can take advantage of the free shipping. So less than once a month, as I don't request assignments every month.
12/06/2011
Contributor: slynch slynch
2-3 times a year
12/06/2011
Contributor: leanright69 leanright69
I am the one that likes to play with toys more than my wife. Because of limited funds I feel guilty if I buy too often. Personally I could get something new each month for us to play with but I think I would get funny looks when the credit card bill would come. I like expensive toys...
12/06/2011
Contributor: Moein Moein
We wish to buy one a week, but for restrictions here we can't

but for one year we got 8. So the average will be less than one per month.
12/06/2011
Contributor: WetJenn WetJenn
With the points and the buy out im ordering a new toy from here every two weeks now. lol Its becoming an obsession..Damn you Eden. lol
12/06/2011
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
Hard for me to say. Used a lot of points this past week but sometimes I go months without buying any
12/07/2011
Contributor: LoveDrunk LoveDrunk
I don't have the money to buy more than once every two months or so. Even so, I have quite the collection. The points program definitely helps too. It really can take the sting out of those luxury purchases.
12/07/2011
Contributor: MeliPixie MeliPixie
I buy toys when I find something I like and have points... That's about, every few months. And I make sure i have enough points to get the combination deals and combine shipping on more than one toy.
12/07/2011
Contributor: Rainbow Boy Rainbow Boy
I've only been with Eden since early 2010, but I definitely don't make a purchase every month. I've probably made four purchases each year, excluding free assignments. I do feel pretty guilty as well, mostly because I have limited funds and I prefer the quality of more expensive toys. That's where points come in really handy. I've saved a lot on hundred dollar dildos.
12/07/2011
Contributor: FemmeFlo FemmeFlo
Quote:
Originally posted by tlaskowski
how often do you buy toys? (avg)
I've been spending more than I should on this site, but I think that now that I have so many toys, it'll calm down. I've reached the point where I'd rather save for something great than get a bunch of cheap things. But I can never resist a good sale on glass.
12/07/2011
Contributor: badk1tty badk1tty
I tend to farm my points monthly, then buy a nice big purchase all at once, adding my own $ to the pot. I've spent a few hundred dollars, points and other, in the last 3 months. I have a dozen reviews still to do before I allow myself another cache.
12/07/2011
Contributor: badk1tty badk1tty
Quote:
Originally posted by FemmeFlo
I've been spending more than I should on this site, but I think that now that I have so many toys, it'll calm down. I've reached the point where I'd rather save for something great than get a bunch of cheap things. But I can never ... more
Glass, too, is my weakness
12/07/2011
Contributor: klyte klyte
I buy them religiously, personally.
12/07/2011
Contributor: Eva Schwaltz Eva Schwaltz
It used to be quite often, but now I'm becoming more picky, and with customs slamming us Canadians with import fees, I don't know how much I will be ordering anymore.
12/08/2011
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I hate that customs is slamming canadians with fees; that's no fun. I order about once a month.
12/08/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
Every couple of months. Gotta keep things spicy.
12/09/2011
Contributor: chantalgiardina chantalgiardina
once a month
01/19/2012
Contributor: SHELBYA SHELBYA
Quote:
Originally posted by tlaskowski
how often do you buy toys? (avg)
once or twice a year.
02/05/2012
Contributor: Greenleaf Greenleaf
About once every other month. The points definitely help with that.
02/08/2012
Contributor: sweet&lush sweet&lush
once a month
02/16/2012
Contributor: Superbals Superbals
rare that i have the money
02/18/2012
Contributor: Loriandhubby Loriandhubby
I'm just now getting my first one so I guess we have to see where it leads
02/23/2012
Contributor: sexystuffeve sexystuffeve
Every couple of months or so, it depends on how much cash I have and what great deals are going on.
02/23/2012
Contributor: sexystuffeve sexystuffeve
Quote:
Originally posted by Loriandhubby
I'm just now getting my first one so I guess we have to see where it leads
Hope you enjoy it!
02/23/2012
Contributor: plaidvulva plaidvulva
I don't buy toys very often. My money is spread incredibly thin just to cover the necessities. But, when my lover and I have the disposable income, we love to buy new toys.
03/05/2012
Contributor: Azule Azule
I buy them on average every month with some discounts and points but i try to save for something nice now since my toys last a while.
03/07/2012
Contributor: Curiouscat Curiouscat
Mines turning into about once a month. Eden definitely helps feed my addiction lol!
03/07/2012
Contributor: Djiffy Djiffy
I usually rack up points for a month then splurge on a large order.
03/11/2012
Contributor: dks210 dks210
If I want something, and have the money to buy it, I get it. It's not very often though.
04/03/2012
Contributor: MistressDandelion MistressDandelion
Using the internet to make purchases, I don't buy new stuff every month.. I like to pay big money only once, and pay shipping fees only once too.
04/09/2012
Contributor: Istanbull Istanbull
I'm the only one who buys them so it's about one per year and a new UR3 pussy when the old one falls apart.
04/11/2012
Contributor: Peaches2000 Peaches2000
Quote:
Originally posted by tlaskowski
how often do you buy toys? (avg)
Only once a month, but I wish it were more
04/22/2012
Contributor: Entropy Entropy
Once a month, maybe less. I'm starting to get a feel for Eden's specials, so I try to hold out until the item I want is really cheap...bad part is that it usually sells out fast.
04/22/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I order once every 3-6 months. I made my orders big and make them count!
04/24/2012
Contributor: Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Quote:
Originally posted by tlaskowski
how often do you buy toys? (avg)
I don't buy "toys" that often, only every 3-4 months, but I buy lingerie all the time.
04/25/2012
Contributor: Master DarkWolf Master DarkWolf
It depends, sometimes weekly, sometimes less often.
04/28/2012
Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Master DarkWolf
It depends, sometimes weekly, sometimes less often.
Yup...
04/28/2012
Contributor: MamaDivine MamaDivine
Quote:
Originally posted by tlaskowski
how often do you buy toys? (avg)
Depends on how often EF changes their goodies/freebies and awesome deals lmao. Everytime I place an order, BAM they change it up again and I am left thinking to myself "Damnit all!!!! I want that and now its on sale!!!!" lol!
04/30/2012
Contributor: Vixen2000 Vixen2000
Quote:
Originally posted by tlaskowski
how often do you buy toys? (avg)
I have only bought toys once and that was several months ago. It just hasn't been in the budget, but I hope I can buy some more soon!
05/22/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by tlaskowski
how often do you buy toys? (avg)
Probably around once a month.
05/22/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
Probably once every couple of months.
05/22/2012
Contributor: Sauceboss Sauceboss
probably about once a month
06/02/2012
Contributor: woodsdragon woodsdragon
It honestly all depends. We get our free item to try and write a review on every time we are eligible, but otherwise we wait until we have the money (getting married soon, so money is tight at the moment). We will splurge every now and then, especially for really good sales or something we know we like and will use.
06/03/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Probably once a month, more when I have cash to splurge
06/03/2012
Contributor: sexykiss sexykiss
i just started buying toys more regularly
06/13/2012
Contributor: L&P3040 L&P3040
We justed started buying more often. Our last order was pretty big but with the help of points and the 20% discount offered at the time we got them really cheap.
06/16/2012
Contributor: mlmac mlmac
I'll say that right now my average is once a month. I think I'm due now for another purchase. Time to go shopping !!
06/16/2012
Contributor: indiechick indiechick
Quote:
Originally posted by tlaskowski
how often do you buy toys? (avg)
I am an advanced reviewer so of course I get something for free every month, BUT I am currently saving up for a toy and I don't want to have to pay a dime for it, so its two months wait for this one.
06/16/2012
Contributor: Pinkshirt Pinkshirt
Several times a year. Not too much. My husband did go through a phase where he was buying one almost every week. Now I feel like we have almost one of each and don't purchase anything unless it looks exceptional
06/26/2012
Contributor: lecanis lecanis
I don't often have money to buy toys, so it's typically only when I get extra funds (tax returns, extra income, etc) that I make those types of purchases. Since joining Edenfantasys, I've made a few more because I can knock the price down a lot with points or special deals.

I would love to be able to make purchases more often, but even when prices are low, I can't usually justify paying shipping to make a small purchase, so I tend to save up to buy instead.
06/26/2012
Contributor: HB042 HB042
I buy too much too often, as I still have things that I've never used!
07/06/2012
Contributor: skeeterlynn skeeterlynn
I buy when I need new ones, wanna try new ones, and have the money.
07/19/2012
Contributor: MK434 MK434
Every 2 or 3 months I place a big order. I love making big orders and getting lots of new stuff all at once rather than just one or two things at a time. I love having so many thing to chose from. My husband always says "so what do you have in your box of trix this time"
07/19/2012
Contributor: g- g-
I've found my holy grail toy in the wevibe 3. I don't really want or need other toys.lol.
07/19/2012
Contributor: konicaguy konicaguy
Quote:
Originally posted by tlaskowski
how often do you buy toys? (avg)
every so often, but not every month. My wife only has a few she really likes, and so we use them until they are dead.
07/19/2012
Contributor: Lioncub Lioncub
About once a month, I try to limit myself.
07/19/2012
Contributor: luvslukin luvslukin
I've bought three so far this year.
07/19/2012
Contributor: milfstatus milfstatus
I buy new ones when I get board with the old ones
07/20/2012
Contributor: Terri69 Terri69
Usually,less than once a month
07/20/2012
Contributor: Pennylyn Pennylyn
rare that i have the money
07/27/2012
Contributor: carenautilus carenautilus
Maybe every two months or so? I tend to save up for big ticket items.
07/29/2012
Contributor: SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
1-2 a week.
08/11/2012
Contributor: Bex1331 Bex1331
about once a month I get a big order
08/11/2012
Contributor: J5ive J5ive
Once a month
08/11/2012
Contributor: Rory Rory
When its time to add a little change I buy!
08/11/2012
Contributor: Ouroborean Ouroborean
I tend to prefer saving up points and getting toys free. P;
08/11/2012
Contributor: crazycouple7281 crazycouple7281
less than once a month.
08/12/2012
Contributor: lineswecast lineswecast
Every month or two (whenever I find something really good!).
08/12/2012
Contributor: amazon amazon
Whenever I see something I love (or a sale you can't pass up)
09/01/2012
Contributor: SaraW0512 SaraW0512
about every 2 weeks
11/14/2012
Contributor: shorejen9 shorejen9
Well I get monthly review assignments but they are free. Otherwise we order every month to three months on average. With the review assignments it makes it easier for us to keep earning points and placing larger orders less often.
12/19/2012
Contributor: evie.amor evie.amor
Quote:
Originally posted by tlaskowski
how often do you buy toys? (avg)
I will be buying toys a lot more often since I've found Eden. The points program is a huge incentive. I love this place, the community is so fun too! I wish I could buy new toys once a month but right now I don't have the funds to do that. Maybe someday soon!
12/27/2012
Contributor: naturegirl naturegirl
I tend to buy expensive toys on the premise that "you get what you pay for", which so far has come true! My Omax rechargeable lasted me over 5 years, I have just bought a Lelo Elise 2 to compliment my Lelo Luna Beads. I don't expect to have to fork out for new toys for years now.
12/27/2012
Contributor: falalena falalena
Quote:
Originally posted by tlaskowski
how often do you buy toys? (avg)
probably buy a toy every other month.
01/01/2013
Contributor: Hummingbird Hummingbird
Yes, just about every 2nd or 3rd week and it is never just one thing.
01/12/2013
Contributor: kkybf kkybf
Once a month
01/14/2013
Contributor: JennSenn JennSenn
I think I average once every other month. But it may be up to once a month.
01/14/2013
Contributor: Hummingbird Hummingbird
Once a month and if I want it bad enough, twice. Even if I have to pay full price. Hey I don't own a car, I need to spend my money on something I enjoy.
01/16/2013
Contributor: kitten07 kitten07
Quote:
Originally posted by Loriandhubby
I'm just now getting my first one so I guess we have to see where it leads
same here
01/30/2013
Contributor: Passion plum Passion plum
About once every two months.
02/01/2013
Contributor: Munko Munko
Not often anymore, used to be fairly often in the beginning of our relationship. Now that I stay home we're down to one income so we have even less money to spend on things. But there are so many new things out I want to try though, so I'll be trying to find money (and saving my points!) for those things.
02/05/2013
Contributor: Genderfree Genderfree
Every few months.
02/06/2013
Contributor: karenm karenm
Once a month.
02/27/2013
Contributor: hillys hillys
once in awhile
02/27/2013
Contributor: tortilla tortilla
not often , but usually a large purchase when I do
03/03/2013
Contributor: TJtheMadHatter TJtheMadHatter
Maybe once a week, or every two weeks. It's not always a toy. It can be porn, lingerie, things exclusively for sensory play. Last weekend I bought the Ryder plug, and this weekend I bought the Leo and some other things. It varies, but I buy things for the bedroom, fairly often. Just toys? I'd say once every two weeks to a month, in general.
03/03/2013
Contributor: big b big b
2-3 times a year
03/03/2013
Contributor: Pete's Princess Pete's Princess
I spent more when I was first getting into toys. I did not know what would work for me so I had to try a few different things till I found what worked. If I already have one of that type/style it is hard to justify buying a new one.

As I have gotten more experience and learned more through reviews on EF, I buy less but higher quality and higher price toys. I still buy lingerie often.
03/03/2013
Contributor: Sexy Housewife Sexy Housewife
Quote:
Originally posted by tlaskowski
how often do you buy toys? (avg)
not sure what there is to explain. We enjoy toys, but we're not huge into solo play. So really, there are not many we want/need. And we also do not have the money to be buying toys every month or more. We usually end up buying something about once every 3-6 months maybe.
11/03/2016
Contributor: 2geeksnluv 2geeksnluv
We buy as often as we can afford too. Usually when we buy we look for very specific things and then go from there. So we usually but 1-2 months.
11/26/2016
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
We buy what we need. It's just that sometimes we're very needy. And when one breaks down. Old faithful Billy just stopped accepting a charge. Guess it's time to get one of the latest and greatest Lelo toys.

Also looking at some of the more featured shape theme dildos at BD make certain orifices tingle. So into the cart it /they go

Just don't ask how many dil 's are in our collection
11/26/2016
Contributor: symbiasin symbiasin
I would get toys when needed, when I have space in my apt. That would be space to be able to ' hide' them or at least get them out of sight. Most seem to be working right now, and most are silicone, thankfully. Are there any dildos over 6" wide?
11/28/2016
Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
Quote:
Originally posted by symbiasin
I would get toys when needed, when I have space in my apt. That would be space to be able to ' hide' them or at least get them out of sight. Most seem to be working right now, and most are silicone, thankfully. Are there any dildos over 6" wide?
What do you think about Mio?
11/29/2016
Contributor: Adam7476 Adam7476
I'd buy them as I needed or liked one. however the wife is not as into them as I am. So I don't buy them very often as I would like to.
12/03/2016
Contributor: poetprincess poetprincess
Quote:
Originally posted by tlaskowski
how often do you buy toys? (avg)
I do not buy toys like I used to, I have learned that once the kids get older , alone time is harder and harder..
12/31/2016
Contributor: tlaskowski tlaskowski
about how much do you spend a year?
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Contributor: Silverdrop Silverdrop
I spent waaaay too much in 2011. But now that I have a good, core collection of quality toys, I have cut back a lot, and limited myself to what I can buy with points. I had three things happen that really made the spending go crazy: discovering that my extensive leather bdsm collection had gotten mold to it, which required replacing a lot of items, trying out glass for the first time, and discovering LUXURY TOYS!!!!

Once I discovered the difference between a luxury vibrator and a cheap battery operated toy that burns out in a few months, I went a little nuts with buying good luxury toys and glass dildos, as well as a few other quality dildos in other materials. I definitely need to do better in 2012 though.
12/06/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I spend between $300 - $600 every month.
I'm getting to the stage where I'm having trouble finding luxury toys I must have - I have most that I want. Having to purchase those other things I've put off... like lingerie.
12/06/2011
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
most of my costs are lingerie related.
12/08/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
Yeah, depends on if you count lingerie and lubes and stuff. I spent a TON our first year being married, but now it is kind of leveled out. And thank goodness for the review program and eden points to make things more cost effective!
12/09/2011
Contributor: Tart Tart
Thanks to EdenPoints I don't have to spend any money! But in costs, it's probably about 300+ a year.
12/09/2011
Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
How often I buy toys varies.

Since October, I've placed 4 orders on EF.
12/09/2011
Contributor: HannahPanda HannahPanda
I tend to buy once a month or less.
02/01/2012
Contributor: Master DarkWolf Master DarkWolf
As W/we spend together what points W/we make on here it is about $200 a week.
04/28/2012
Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Master DarkWolf
As W/we spend together what points W/we make on here it is about $200 a week.
Exactly... ^^
04/28/2012
Contributor: MamaDivine MamaDivine
Oh I don't even think I want to add up that number lmao
04/30/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by tlaskowski
about how much do you spend a year?
I am pretty sure I end up spend a lot more than 500 dollars a year on toys.
05/22/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
With sales and points, less than $500.
05/22/2012
Contributor: konicaguy konicaguy
Quote:
Originally posted by tlaskowski
about how much do you spend a year?
We buy one and use it until it's dead...
07/19/2012
Contributor: Lioncub Lioncub
Never really added it up, less than $500 I'm sure.
07/19/2012
Contributor: carenautilus carenautilus
Certainly more than $500. With points, maybe $700-$800.
07/29/2012
Contributor: amazon amazon
Probably around 100.00 a year. Maybe 200.
09/01/2012
Contributor: Chefbriapink Chefbriapink
Quote:
Originally posted by Shellz31
I spend between $300 - $600 every month.
I'm getting to the stage where I'm having trouble finding luxury toys I must have - I have most that I want. Having to purchase those other things I've put off... like lingerie.
wow!
10/11/2012
Contributor: falalena falalena
Quote:
Originally posted by tlaskowski
about how much do you spend a year?
so far this year i have spent $100, and i plan on spending maybe $150 more. i dont think i need a whole bunch of toys, and i have been doing lots of research while earning points to determine high quality toys that will last.
01/01/2013
Contributor: JennSenn JennSenn
Under 500, over 100 I think last year.
01/14/2013
Contributor: tortilla tortilla
under 500 I would guess
03/03/2013