I have been looking into geting a Hitachi for 3 yrs now. I found a kick ass deal on ebay, they were buy 1 get 1 free. I was so excited to finally get it , I was getting tired of buying batteries. So when it finally got here, I could not wait to try with my husband. I took it out of the box and plugged it in to show him just how powerful it was, the second he laid eyes on it, he said he wanted NOTHING to do with it.

I don't know if it was the size of it or my excitement about it that turned him off, but he does not want to try it with me. He has no issues with cock rings or me using my bullet vibe when we are intimate. He saw the disaapointed look on my face and said I shouldn't act as if I REALLY got this Hitachi for the both us. He says it looks likes a torture device from the 70s. I know it is not that big a deal, but I really wanted to try this with him, we have only been married a year but we have been a couple for 6. After 6 years, the sex can get a little stale, so I am trying to keep it spicy but he will not try anything new. No food, no sex in the kitchen or shower, living room or anywhere besides the damn bedroom.

Did anyone else get a reaction like this from a partner about a sex toy or anything new you wanted to try. He never comes up with ideas for sex, it is always me. If anyone has any suggestions or advice I would appreciate it very much. Feel free to share your story as well. less

I have been looking into geting a Hitachi for 3 yrs now. I found a kick ass deal on ebay, they were buy 1 get 1 free. I was so excited to finally get it , I was getting tired of buying batteries. So when it finally got here, I could not wait to try with my husband. I took it out of the box and plugged it in to show him just how powerful it was, the second he laid eyes on it, he said he wanted NOTHING to do with it.

I don't know if it was the size of it or my excitement about it that turned him off, but he does not want to try it with me. He has no issues with cock rings or me using my bullet vibe when we are intimate. He saw the disaapointed look on my face and said I shouldn't act as if I REALLY got this Hitachi for the both us. He says it looks likes a torture device from the 70s. I know it is not that big a deal, but I really wanted to try this with him, we have only been married a year but we have been a couple for 6. After 6 years, the sex can get a little stale, so I am trying to keep it spicy but he will not try anything new. No food, no sex in the kitchen or shower, living room or anywhere besides the damn bedroom.

Did anyone else get a reaction like this from a partner about a sex toy or anything new you wanted to try. He never comes up with ideas for sex, it is always me. If anyone has any suggestions or advice I would appreciate it very much. Feel free to share your story as well. less

I have been looking into geting a Hitachi for 3 yrs now. I found a kick ass deal on ebay, they were buy 1 get 1 free. I was so excited to finally get it , I was getting tired of buying batteries. So when it finally got here, I could not wait to try with my husband. I took it out of the box and plugged it in to show him just how powerful it was, the second he laid eyes on it, he said he wanted NOTHING to do with it.

I don't know if it was the size of it or my excitement about it that turned him off, but he does not want to try it with me. He has no issues with cock rings or me using my bullet vibe when we are intimate. He saw the disaapointed look on my face and said I shouldn't act as if I REALLY got this Hitachi for the both us. He says it looks likes a torture device from the 70s. I know it is not that big a deal, but I really wanted to try this with him, we have only been married a year but we have been a couple for 6. After 6 years, the sex can get a little stale, so I am trying to keep it spicy but he will not try anything new. No food, no sex in the kitchen or shower, living room or anywhere besides the damn bedroom.

Did anyone else get a reaction like this from a partner about a sex toy or anything new you wanted to try. He never comes up with ideas for sex, it is always me. If anyone has any suggestions or advice I would appreciate it very much. Feel free to share your story as well. less

Old thread, but I wanted to put in my two cents. How about trying it out as a body massager first. Give him a good back and shoulder rub with it to show him how nice this toy can be. My husband and I were both a little blown away when we saw the size of this toy, but showing ways that it can be pleasing to anyone, even in a non-sexual way, makes it a little less intimidating. less