Would you ever consider adding a third to spice things up?

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Would you ever consider adding a third to spice things up?

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Contributor: tammyandy69 tammyandy69
How many people are open to this idea
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Yes...with a woman
LikeSunshineDust , Shellz31 , Purpleducklings , ATL Freak , soliloquy , sexyk515 , padmeamidala , salaciousrex , AAAToyGirl , sweetiejo , kjkitty , need4fun2469 , aimtoplease , pirata , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , BrittaniMaree , Beck , marriedlady123
18  (11%)
yes...with a man
namelesschaos , bluekaren , Karen Affeldt , sarki , CreamySweet , MyWifeExposed , Beaners , magicmaxx Mr.Mrs , eroticmutt , Hummingbird
10  (6%)
yes...someone we both could enjoy
Airekah , Joie de Cherresse , bunny love , MaryExy , mrs.mckrakn , kelaaa33wish , PassionQT , tim1724 , Adriana Ravenlust , Airen Wolf , CecilyThomson , oohlookasquirrel , Mewt , UnknownGirl , sexyintexas , Britt&Daniel , MontereyJak , kittychilla , cnspots , evelyn15401 , moonch1ld , toxie m , Wyo Daisy , Waterfall , extrafun , teeny <3 , Piper Kitty , CutiePatootie , SiNn , Kkay , Pinkhare , OhioJoe , slynch , HusbandandWife , I'mNotYourToy , Bodhi , xilliannax , Kat and Aaron(aaron) , Diablotin , Minamie , LoveDrunk , Geogeo
42  (25%)
No way in hell
*HisMrs* , ellejay , Sweet-Justice , mama2007 , markeagleone , leatherlover , tickle me pink , KrystalFayeO , Lithaewyn , AW00 , w-o-name , Rossie , indiglo , sarahbear , liilii080 , SugarAndSpice , cherie2188 , K101 , Linga , uu , FREE MR PERRY , neon , Gunsmoke , Persephone Nightmare , Judas Iscars , froggiemoma , Virgulino , DeliciousSurprise , sbon , Darling Jen , Maeby , Rachel Nunez , CharmCity , deletedacct , KrissyRoro , Miss Anonymous , ToyingCouple , MN58 , ToyGurl , Bignuf , onesexydad , Ghost , BoomersGirl , emiliaa , PropertyOfPotter , bayosgirl , Passionate Pastor , ily , southern woman , N&M , tooshy , The Curious Couple , mizzmilla , C-Rae , fleshlightluvr1 , domsub1993 , angel142stx , chantalgiardina , ghalik , wdanas , mpfm , Feisty , LovesAPoet , BlooJay , potstickers , wwwww , hhh , Leather & Lace , LoooveMonkey , Rory , tami , lainebug , swordfighter , toy review man , captainsgirl , Munko
76  (45%)
maybe...with lots of talking before hand
Solar Ray , CPTInsanity , ninaspinkturtle , purplekidney , Kindred , gehuwd , cburger , C4ss , Bonesdance , Blah83 , Taylor , The Mother of a SiNner , mcl272 , Lady Marmelade , systematicweasel , Talena , RedKyuubi , richsam , SMichelle , Gone (LD29) , Martiniman , cowgirl1130
22  (13%)
Total votes: 168
Poll is closed
03/17/2011
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Contributor: Airekah Airekah
This consideration would have to be made with a partner I trust, not just anyone. There would have to be guidelines listed as well to how things should go and what is allowed and not allowed, to ensure that everything goes over well.
03/17/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
Yes I would invite another girl in so we could both enjoy her - if a partner was interested.
03/17/2011
Contributor: Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
we probably never will and that doesn't seem to bother either of us.
03/17/2011
Contributor: mama2007 mama2007
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-Justice
we probably never will and that doesn't seem to bother either of us.
no way in hell!
03/18/2011
Contributor: namelesschaos namelesschaos
Group sex in my biggest fantasy and I ave no problem with the idea of an open relationship so. Yes "I picked with a man because unlike most guys I find the idea of a MFM threesome, DPing, the F, to be more arousing then a FFM.
03/18/2011
Contributor: markeagleone markeagleone
Quote:
Originally posted by tammyandy69
How many people are open to this idea
Making love is an physical emotion of the heart. My heart belongs to one!
03/18/2011
Contributor: Solar Ray Solar Ray
Well we are certainly not at that point in our relationship but I'd never say never.. but it would involve a lot of discussions and communicating to make damn sure it doesn't effect our relationship going forward... and I'm not really sure it's even possible... but it does heavily depend on the people involved of course.
03/26/2011
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
We have had same room sex with others but never swapped. We have thought about a threesome and in fact I am in search of the right person to join in on our fun. It would only be a one time thing. It would be with a woman. Someone for both of us to have fun with. Neither of us have ever had a threesome and we want to try it. We've had foursomes and moresomes, but never fully swapped with the other people other than oral.
03/26/2011
Contributor: tickle me pink tickle me pink
Quote:
Originally posted by markeagleone
Making love is an physical emotion of the heart. My heart belongs to one!
My thoughts exactly!
03/26/2011
Contributor: KrystalFayeO KrystalFayeO
When I have sex with my husband it's not just about getting off. It's about a physical connection. That being said, if I was just in a relationship that wasn't permanent I would try a three-way!
03/28/2011
Contributor: Lithaewyn Lithaewyn
I said no because I can't imagine the potential sacrifice ever being worth any additional pleasure.
03/28/2011
Contributor: AW00 AW00
Never...so not for me !
03/29/2011
Contributor: w-o-name w-o-name
Never ever!
04/13/2011
Contributor: soliloquy soliloquy
Quote:
Originally posted by tammyandy69
How many people are open to this idea
My partner and I have actually discussed our interest in this.
04/15/2011
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
I think so
04/15/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
We would not do this. We both have decided to be monogamous with each other because we want to be. And living up to that vow is very important to both of us. It means a lot to us.
04/15/2011
Contributor: CPTInsanity CPTInsanity
The situation would have to be right. I'm not trying to screw up a good thing. I'm not a jealous person, so I could deal with my wife having sex with someone else, but I'm not sure she could deal with me doing the same. I think that it would be pretty hot because I'm completely about pleasuring my wife, and I would do anything to give her the most pleasure.
04/15/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
I just don't think I could handle this. I could change my mind because the older I get the more I realize things change but right now my answer is no.
04/15/2011
Contributor: purplekidney purplekidney
She: I came out as bi after we got married, so haven't had much of a chance to fool around with women. It might be fun, but we're not good at sharing.

He: Sorry, lost in fantasy.
04/15/2011
Contributor: SugarAndSpice SugarAndSpice
No way.
04/16/2011
Contributor: hspence hspence
i've tried it before and even tho i'm bi and love women i can't handle my man being with someone else
04/17/2011
Contributor: hspence hspence
Quote:
Originally posted by hspence
i've tried it before and even tho i'm bi and love women i can't handle my man being with someone else
tried it before but when i woke up the next morning it hurrrt so bad
04/17/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by mama2007
no way in hell!
I'm with you mama2007 on this one!
04/19/2011
Contributor: Linga Linga
Quote:
Originally posted by hspence
tried it before but when i woke up the next morning it hurrrt so bad
That's exactly why I wouldn't do it. The thought of it is arousing but I know that in the throws of it I would be very turned on but after that all dies down... the next day for instance, I think i would be very worried and insecure. There is no way to tell just what will happen afterward. There could be a connection between any of us and I do not want anyone but my man nor can I handle the thought of him with anyone but me. And that goes for male or female.
04/19/2011
Contributor: sexyk515 sexyk515
yes and it was fun
04/23/2011
Contributor: FREE MR PERRY FREE MR PERRY
Quote:
Originally posted by tammyandy69
How many people are open to this idea
NOT
04/23/2011
Contributor: oohlookasquirrel oohlookasquirrel
Definitely open to the idea. We're both into it, just need to find the right third...
04/24/2011
Contributor: DancerLove DancerLove
My husband told me that he souldn't mind it at all if I wanted another girl with us and I was so pissed at him for even wanting another girl. It makes me feel so insignificant, like he wants someone else and not me. So no, because it can destroy a marriage or a relationship. And it is a sin to be with someone else who isn't your husband or wife.
04/26/2011
Contributor: kitty5cat kitty5cat
my husband wants to watch me with another girl, he only wants to be with me though. I'm into the idea, something i've always wanted to try.
04/28/2011