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Would you ever consider adding a third to spice things up?

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Contributor: HusbandandWife HusbandandWife
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Originally posted by tammyandy69
How many people are open to this idea
We have never done this, but we have been discussing it lately. We have talked about another couple or a single male/female joining. It may just be a fantasy, but we have a profile on AFF just in case. Just a little nervous about it...and excited!! Any suggestions let me know!
06/10/2012
Contributor: chantalgiardina chantalgiardina
Quote:
Originally posted by tammyandy69
How many people are open to this idea
it wouldn't work for my relationship because we have dealt with infidelity in the past I wouldn't trust him enough to try it.
06/10/2012
Contributor: Bodhi Bodhi
Well, I, myself would consider it if we were both 100% secure with it. My Boyfriend isn't into adding thirds though, so that shoots down that idea. I swear I could bring another girl home, and he'd refuse.
06/10/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I would but I am picky. I actually just went to a swingers club the other night to check it out and it is something I would consider with my man.
06/10/2012
Contributor: Feisty Feisty
we talk about it as a fantasy, but i wouldn't want it to really happen
06/10/2012
Contributor: Talena Talena
There was no other... we tried it once and it soooo did not turn out good. I might again, but I would be very picky and rules would be involved.
06/10/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
Nah, not for us.
06/10/2012
Contributor: RedKyuubi RedKyuubi
maybe, but unlikely
09/28/2012
Contributor: BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
been with my hubby 10 years but I am bi sexual very much attracted to females hubby is only man i want but girls different story
09/28/2012
Contributor: BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
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Originally posted by Joie de Cherresse
We have had same room sex with others but never swapped. We have thought about a threesome and in fact I am in search of the right person to join in on our fun. It would only be a one time thing. It would be with a woman. Someone for both of us ... more
Hey women where was I when you were in the room woulda brought some and enjoyed the show JK Hun
09/28/2012
Contributor: Kat and Aaron(aaron) Kat and Aaron(aaron)
We're open to it. Have talked extensively about the possibility.
10/02/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
Yes! I can't wait to meet someone I who can join.
10/02/2012
Contributor: Leather & Lace Leather & Lace
No, i'd be too jealous!
10/06/2012
Contributor: LoooveMonkey LoooveMonkey
He really doesn't want to. We talked about it. I am not easily made jealous, and in all these years we've never cheated, but that? That's way too much for me, too. I couldn't deal with him touching someone else at all. I would definitely be damaged if we did that. Oh, but maybe an android. Yes, we can have a threesome with an android. . . but it can't be equipped with AI.
10/06/2012
Contributor: Rory Rory
NO NO NO!!! I'm only into twosomes!!
10/08/2012
Contributor: tami tami
Quote:
Originally posted by tammyandy69
How many people are open to this idea
it is not gonna happen in my relationship I do not share and will not be shared
12/21/2012
Contributor: lainebug lainebug
Quote:
Originally posted by tammyandy69
How many people are open to this idea
nope
12/21/2012
Contributor: Minamie Minamie
That will likely happen. My husband and I have been discussing about adding another person or couple to have fun, it's just a question of finding the right person (I'm really picky.)
01/03/2013
Contributor: eroticmutt eroticmutt
Yes, I would really like to and he's said it is a possibility but I don't know if it will actually happen or not..
01/06/2013
Contributor: Awux Awux
No, I would be entirely too jealous...
01/06/2013
Contributor: LoveDrunk LoveDrunk
Quote:
Originally posted by tammyandy69
How many people are open to this idea
My husband and I recently had a three some with another man. We talked a lot about it at first and agreed it sounded fun. It was a blast! We enjoyed ourselves and would do it again. It's up to you
01/12/2013
Contributor: marriedlady123 marriedlady123
We have thought about it, and are both interested, but I doubt that it would ever happen (we live in a rural area). I'm a little bi-curious, and not a jealous person, so I think that these two facts are the only reason that it would work for us. I did tell my hubby that he could play around in a threesome, but not have actual sex with another woman. For some reason, that would just bother me (also-I would be too freaked out about her getting pregnant!)
01/12/2013
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
It's been considered by us both, but we decided to its best to leave it as a fantasy.
01/12/2013
Contributor: Hummingbird Hummingbird
Only if he would too, but ai doubt he would. I just need so much more!
01/12/2013
Contributor: toy review man toy review man
Can't see it ever happening.
01/12/2013
Contributor: captainsgirl captainsgirl
nope, we complete each other enough
01/14/2013
Contributor: Munko Munko
I couldn't do it. I have been with a woman and would do it again, if only I could be with her. But of course to hubby that's not fair

I'm not the super jealous type, but I am a touch (or a lot) insecure in a lot of things, and I KNOW seeing him with another woman would haunt me for ever and not be something I could get over. And he would never considering having another man in the bedroom (and I'm not entirely all that interested in being with another man, anyways)
01/26/2013
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
Quote:
Originally posted by tammyandy69
How many people are open to this idea
not as a planned thing, but if it just happened spontaneously yes
01/26/2013