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How long have you been single (not including one nightstands, etc. etc.)

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Contributor: NAV NAV
So, I haven't had a relationship in almost 15 months
and I was wondering if anyone else is in the same boat. I briefly dated one person a month ago, but that didn't go anywhere emotionally or psychically.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
less than one month
2  (4%)
less than 3 months
4  (8%)
less than 6 months
2  (4%)
less than 10 months
less than a year
6  (12%)
over a year
8  (16%)
over 2 years
16  (32%)
never had a relationship
12  (24%)
Total votes: 50
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Contributor: connies7388 connies7388
There are some long term relationships (over a year) that I have been in that in retrospect I wish I had been single!! I truly beleive it is better to be SINGLE than in a toxic relationship.
03/04/2012
Contributor: hillys hillys
I'm in a long term. It has it's ups and downs. But when your in between take a nice long break because between my last two. I had a nice year off and it was fabulous, got to know myself a bit better.
03/17/2012
Contributor: Avant-garde Avant-garde
Never been in a relationship. It doesn't really bother me.
03/17/2012
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
My first few I bounced from one guy to the next, but there was a few months between my last relationship and my husband and I getting back together.
03/19/2012
Contributor: CadmiumKitty CadmiumKitty
i'm over being single
05/23/2012
Contributor: Love Obsessed Love Obsessed
I've never really been in a relationship.Nobody really wants to be with me the last guy claimed to want a relationship turned out to be abusive toward me.Sexually,mentally and somewhat physically.
05/23/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by NAV
So, I haven't had a relationship in almost 15 months
and I was wondering if anyone else is in the same boat. I briefly dated one person a month ago, but that didn't go anywhere emotionally or psychically.
A year or so.
05/24/2012
Contributor: pixxie87 pixxie87
less than 3 months and im enjoying this
05/24/2012
Contributor: Doll In Dungarees Doll In Dungarees
3 years. Yikes!
06/18/2012
Contributor: nosrslylol nosrslylol
I haven't dated since last August. While having someone is nice, I'm not overly worried about it.
06/18/2012
Contributor: lecanis lecanis
Quote:
Originally posted by NAV
So, I haven't had a relationship in almost 15 months
and I was wondering if anyone else is in the same boat. I briefly dated one person a month ago, but that didn't go anywhere emotionally or psychically.
I've been single since I split from my son's dad, almost three years ago. Mostly the reason I'm still single is because I really just don't have time to date properly while taking care of a special needs child. It didn't bother me for a while - I needed a relationship break after a long failed marriage - but it's starting to get frustrating by this point.
06/20/2012
Contributor: JustSkin JustSkin
I'm going on 4 years
06/20/2012
Contributor: kitty1949 kitty1949
i've never had a real relationship and it sucks.
06/22/2012
Contributor: LadyDarknezz LadyDarknezz
Ugh...It's been almost 6 years now. Yeah...I hate every moment of being single. My illness causes me to be sort of isolated from the outside world, so it is hard for me to really meet any possible companions. Needless to say, I am a very lonely, miserable, little lady right now.

I am currently interacting with people on FetLife though, so maybe I will wind up meeting that special someone one of these days. I just need to remember to stay hopeful.
07/25/2012
Contributor: bettle590 bettle590
I've never had a serious relationship...it's really frustrating sometimes
08/16/2012
Contributor: MissK680 MissK680
My last serious relationship ended in '09. I don't consider one night stands and flings being in a relationship. If all you're doing is sleeping with the person, it's not a relationship, you're still single. Don't be that crazy person who confuses the two!
09/08/2012
Contributor: Scythe Scythe
Quote:
Originally posted by connies7388
There are some long term relationships (over a year) that I have been in that in retrospect I wish I had been single!! I truly beleive it is better to be SINGLE than in a toxic relationship.
Been single 4 months.
05/09/2013
Contributor: Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
I've been single for over 2 years.
06/12/2013