Which do you prefer: Single or in a relationship?

Contributor: michael scofield michael scofield
single. i would love to be in a relationship but i just meet all the wrong girls. it should not be stressfull being in a relationship. it should be happy and the best time of your life. all the girls i meet are just stressful and makes me not want to be with them or in a relationship. right now i like single. my fleshlight is my girlfriend.
04/15/2012
Contributor: kittenfacery kittenfacery
i get very lonely and very horny /very/ quickly. so i need to have a snugglemuffin about.
05/08/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
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Originally posted by Nazaress
Are you happiest when you're single or when you're in a relationship?
Single because I feel like I'm dealing with less baggage. But when I'm in a relationship I have someone to have sex with any time I want. So there are pros and cons to both I guess
05/14/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Relationship, it's more convenient. The ups beat the downs
05/21/2012
Contributor: Sam I Am Sam I Am
I like being in a relationship, as long as it's a healthy one
05/29/2012
Contributor: PinkiePie PinkiePie
I think it really depends, and no relationship is far better than a bad relationship. Sometimes being single is really nice, but others not so much.
05/31/2012
Contributor: Love Obsessed Love Obsessed
I'm enjoying being single right now but,I wish I were in a relationship.There's benefits to being single,I can do what I want to do.
05/31/2012
Contributor: Terri69 Terri69
I like both
09/20/2012
Contributor: John E W John E W
I voted other because if I'm in a relationship and happy sexually then it's good. If not single is better as you can run and look around
09/20/2012
Contributor: amazon amazon
Always fun doing it together!
09/20/2012
Contributor: subwayrailings subwayrailings
depends on the relationship !
10/29/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
Relationship
10/29/2012
Contributor: Gone (LD29) Gone (LD29)
I say in a relationship, but that could just be since that's what I know. It's been a damn long time since I wasn't in a relationship.
10/29/2012
Contributor: LoooveMonkey LoooveMonkey
I don't like being alone. I'm the kind of person who takes care of everyone but has no one to take care of them, so I didn't deal with that too well before I got my boyfriend.
10/29/2012
Contributor: VanillaFreeSex VanillaFreeSex
it seems my answer has become clearer since my last response in april, when i was really struggling with this issue.

i enjoy being single. never thought i would. do i prefer over a relationship? well that would depend on the relationship. alone is better than an unhealthy relationship. if i met someone and it grew into a relationship that was healthy enough that i could still hold onto the parts of myself that i have refound and have learned to enjoy, then great. if not, i'll stick with single.

there are things that suck about being single though
10/30/2012
Contributor: Supervixen Supervixen
Neither. I sometimes refer to my guy on here as my boyfriend, my SO, or my lover, and really, he's my lover. The terms just started to become interchangeable since I know none of you personally, so it doesn't have to be confusing. I prefer what I have now, which is not really single, and not really in a relationship. He's someone I care about and I tend to be monogamous even in this type of relationship because it's absolutely draining for me to focus my energies in an intimate manner with more than one person. But there's more freedom and independence with a lover, and less loneliness and longing when single. It's a good balance.

I've been in one too many committed, draining, and even traumatizing serious relationships, which started happening when I was 15. It takes a lot out of you, especially when they continue to fail. Maybe it will change one day, maybe it won't. Right now, somewhere between single and a relationship is what I want.
10/30/2012
Contributor: BiteOnThis BiteOnThis
There are pros and cons to both. Find a happy medium and you're in heaven!
10/30/2012
Contributor: Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
well if the relationship sucks,.. then i'd prefer to be single.. but usually i prefer being with someone.
10/30/2012
Contributor: Pink Lily Pink Lily
I'm generally happier when I'm in a relationship, but I usually have this peak right after I end it...
11/08/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
I actually like being in a relationship
11/08/2012