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Contributor: virgomama616 virgomama616
Whats the best way to find out if my partner is interested in this? We do some analplay but only on me. I dont know if he would be into it or not.
07/28/2011
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Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I'd suggest starting with a gentle massage of the perineum area while giving him a BJ. The prostate lies just behind that area. If you get a decent response from there you can move down to massage his 'rosebud' externally. If you use lubricant I'm pretty sure he'll know what you have in mind.

If you haven't already discussed what's on your mind - this will certainly begin the conversation. Good luck and enjoy.
07/29/2011
Contributor: stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
Possibly ask 1st.
or when giving a bj, slowly get under his balls & slowly & gently tab the anus. If he is uncomfortable stop, if he enjoys it go for it, but have lube handy.
07/30/2011
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
As with most things, communication is the best place to start. You could also do like Gunsmoke and stlouisxxx suggest, but that may ruin the moment. It kind of depends on how open he is.
07/30/2011
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I'd suggest starting with a gentle massage of the perineum area while giving him a BJ. The prostate lies just behind that area. If you get a decent response from there you can move down to massage his 'rosebud' externally. If you use ... more
Good suggestion.
07/30/2011
Contributor: Yaoi Pervette (deleted) Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I'd suggest starting with a gentle massage of the perineum area while giving him a BJ. The prostate lies just behind that area. If you get a decent response from there you can move down to massage his 'rosebud' externally. If you use ... more
I like your suggestion. This is pretty much how I found out. I was giving my husband oral and I started massaging his perineum. He actually kept prompting me to get closer and closer to his anal orifice. He liked it so much, he later wanted me to insert a finger. We eventually got some small anal toys for him to play with.
07/30/2011
Contributor: ToyBoy ToyBoy
Just simply asking him would be the easiest way, but you could try massaging the areas around it and see how he reacts.
08/01/2011
Contributor: Spilock Spilock
I would actually say to mix the two kinds of suggestions. Start out with massaging closer and closer to it during a bj, and then ask if he wants to try a finger. In a sexy way would be best, and he would probably be more open then than at say, a dinner table.
08/08/2011
Contributor: JaxJim JaxJim
While giving a good BJ when he's pretty in to it, rub the entrance with a finger. If he doesn't try to move away, keep rubbing and maybe wet your finger and slightly enter him. If he still doesn't move away, you're probably good to explore further.
08/19/2011
Contributor: dawnkye dawnkye
I'd straight-up ask.
08/19/2011
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
The rule with anal on anyone (male or female) is "say before you shove". You can do a bit of external play to see if he seems to be into it or not, but definitely ask before putting anything inside.

Setting the stage (BJ, warm-up, sexy voice) does help. Also you might want to emphasize that you're still the girl and he's still the guy somehow.
08/20/2011