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Harness and dildo suggestions for my wife
I think we are finally going to cross the threshold into pegging (YAY!!) and we need harness suggestions. I don't want to spend a lot of money on...

What combination of toys/harnesses is going to be best for me?
My boyfriend and I have been interested in pegging for a long while, and we're sure it's something we want to do. I've been obsessed with the La Femme

do you peg?
do you like pegging?

What's the best dual toy to use for pegging?
I am looking for a new toy that my wife can have part of it in her and the rest of it in my ass. Was looking at the feeldoe but notice it's not on EF.

What are your favorite dildos for pegging?
We have a nice dildo collection. We prefer vibrating silicone dildos.

Regarding dildos, I am partial to the silk line from Tantus. They have a nice rounded head and are smooth which is good if your partner is just starting out with pegging. They are available in small, medium and large

For a harness, there are a lot of choices available, so it will probably depend on how much you are willing to spend. If you are unsure if pegging is something you will continue doing, you might want to try something like the Latigo Leather Harness. It is lower priced and you can change the O-ring size for when you progress to larger dildos. We have the Spareparts Joque Harness which is more expensive also a quality product. It is very comfortable to wear, adjustable, and has a flexible O-ring that stretches to accommodate dildos up to a diameter of 2". A good option you should consider is the Curve Kit. I believe it combines the Latigo Leather Harness with the Tantus Curve dildo. The Curve is a great dildo for pegging. At 1-3/8" diameter, it's just slightly bigger than your Holt. It also has a nice big base for stability in the harness, has a curve for P-spot targeting, and is made of silicone. It's also a great dildo for g-spot targeting. I hope that helps. Feel free to message me if you have any other questions.

I think I'm going to go with the curve kit. I'm not sure if I'll like pegging, but I have a girlfriend I can try strap-ons with.

I like the mistress, but is a little small for me but maybe not for most. Long dildos are probably better for strap on use. I think the mistress is perfect for the beginner. I personally love the Leo but it is probably bigger than most will take for the first time.

I'd definitely recommend the Silk series.

Get a silicone dildo. The medium Silk is good, as is the Vixen Smooth Operator or Tantus Curve. VixSkin's great if you can get it, and the Raquel is smallish and non-realistic. As for a harness look at some of the Sportsheets, Aslan, SpareParts or Outlaw Leather models.

We started with Mistress, then Leo, then Johnny and now use the Outlaw.

(All by Vixen)

If you really want to be adventurous, check out Heeldo - the first strap on dildo harness for your foot. Lay on your back and peg him with your foot, or he can use it when you're not around

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Scott nailed it, try and get something adjustable and sturdy.