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Do anal toys help you relax?

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Contributor: spineyogurt spineyogurt
My girlfriend sometimes finds it easier to relax and go straight to the main event, she says the toys sometimes just throw her off
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Yes
Rossie , Gunsmoke , Fawkes , stlouisxxx , Loriandhubby , Ellae , Sauceboss , Ciao. , Why Not? , romstomp , Hallmar82 , ToyingCouple , potstickers , LavenderSkies , KittenEyes , MrsHouseWife , ichwillwaffels , Kappa8564 , panthercat23 , Keckhafer , mmmmm , Airen Wolf , damnbul12 , woofcub , FHeemz , Tango8976 , PurplePainter23 , Apple3192 , Falsepast , travelnurse , Athena313 , Voir
32  (80%)
No
MistressDandelion , geliebt , ginainohio , Leather & Lace , Sinfully , Casey Colette , brevado , thesquaredeific
8  (20%)
Total votes: 40
Poll is closed
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Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Yes it does, I need to wear a plug before taking the real thing.
05/19/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
It's her ass - so follow her lead - but for us, toys help with the warm up.
05/20/2012
Contributor: Fawkes Fawkes
some times we jump right to it, but usually there is at least some toy play before anal.
05/20/2012
Contributor: stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
For my girlfriend, toys relax her and make anal more enjoyable.
Maybe you should look at the toys you have & possibly get something else. What toys throw her off & which one of you is using it? If it is you maybe you aren't giving her enough time to get use to it, to big, not enough lube
05/20/2012
Contributor: Loriandhubby Loriandhubby
Follow her led. That being said, I need toys and a great amount of warming up. We are hoping one day I can handle my Hubby and do away with the toys.
05/20/2012
Contributor: Sauceboss Sauceboss
i think so
05/21/2012
Contributor: Why Not? Why Not?
A big part of anal is being horny for it. If she is relaxed and ready for it without toys then more power to her. Sometimes toys can just get in the way, distract, and tense things up. That has happened to me at times. That said, I generally relax a lot with a little toy play first.
05/22/2012
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
Toys help get you used to learning what you can take or how fast. Practice makes perfect.
05/22/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by spineyogurt
My girlfriend sometimes finds it easier to relax and go straight to the main event, she says the toys sometimes just throw her off
Yes, definitely.
05/27/2012
Contributor: MistressDandelion MistressDandelion
No. Actually I have to refrain using them when I'm stressed out, or else it's not pleasurable at all.
05/31/2012
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
I'm sort of in the middle.. but more leaning towards no.
While it's good if I haven't had any anal play in a while to use a toy beforehand.. oftentimes it ends up making me clench up MORE and makes anal more uncomfortable :\ Generally with anal sex, I just prefer to get right to it, although I'll always want to take it slow
06/03/2012
Contributor: ginainohio ginainohio
nope
09/24/2012
Contributor: Kappa8564 Kappa8564
no way
10/01/2012
Contributor: panthercat23 panthercat23
somewhat it does
10/01/2012
Contributor: dollsteak dollsteak
Yes
10/05/2012
Contributor: Leather & Lace Leather & Lace
No, I don't like anal toys.
10/05/2012
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by spineyogurt
My girlfriend sometimes finds it easier to relax and go straight to the main event, she says the toys sometimes just throw her off
Anal toys are necessary for me to relax along with some good quality lube.
10/05/2012
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
Not in my experience.
10/05/2012
Contributor: damnbul12 damnbul12
yes they do
10/05/2012
Contributor: Casey Colette Casey Colette
Quote:
Originally posted by Why Not?
A big part of anal is being horny for it. If she is relaxed and ready for it without toys then more power to her. Sometimes toys can just get in the way, distract, and tense things up. That has happened to me at times. That said, I generally ... more
im scary of this stuff. I like seeing it on porn, but i dont think i can do it!
10/05/2012
Contributor: brevado brevado
They excite me, but not relax
10/05/2012
Contributor: woofcub woofcub
yes, a good toy and good quality lube helps stretch and make things less painful.
10/09/2012
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
I like the toys first!
12/16/2012
Contributor: Incendiaire Incendiaire
I think the fact that you're using the toy on yourself helps you to relax, as you can go at your own pace, then let your partner do his thing afterwards.
12/16/2012