Head Diameter + Suggestions

Contributor: Envy Envy
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Hello, I was eyeing this for my bf for a first toy for anal, but I'm on the fence because the description is giving one measurement for the diameter, but in reviews people say it's 1.5 inches in diameter. I worry this would be way too big for him.

Anyone have any other suggestions? We're looking for his first anal toy, preferably a pspot massager, one he can use solo as we don't live together yet and are dating long distance.

Thanks!
04/06/2010
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Contributor: Sir Sir
The biggest point is 1 1/8", at the ridge of the head, according to real size view when I put my ruler up to the screen. I can give some suggestions, give me a bit to look.

Edit:

Here are some that are good: link
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Those might be good for p-spotting (I do not know their firmness, though), but the g-force is really good, and should not be too big or overfilling with a good amount of lubricant, both on the anal area and on the toy itself.
04/06/2010
Contributor: Envy Envy
Thanks for the reply!

I was looking at those others as well, and I admit I'm somewhat skepticle about Bob. I know it's a plug and some guys like it, but my bf says using his fingers, he still can't find his spot. It makes me think it may be further in than what is 'normal' perhaps. That's why I was thinking of something with a handle that wouldn't be too overbearing, bulky, or painful to insert, but still be safe for anal.

I was also eyeing this: link

Only problem is, the size of that bulb!
04/07/2010
Contributor: Backseat Boohoo Backseat Boohoo
Yeah, the bulb is usually bigger to provide more pressure/surface for pressing on the g-spot or prostate in those kinds of toys.

How many fingers can your boyfriend fit comfortably in his anus? That may give a better idea as to how much he can handle.
04/07/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
The G-force is pretty narrow at the head - definitely not 1.5". 1.5" might be the handle diameter, but it's unlikely you're going to put it in that far. 1-1/8" at the head looks about right, and then the neck narrows down.

The G-force can be used solo easily (long handle), and it's not super stiff. That is a good thing for a first toy, but if he likes firm stimulation the G-force might not be the toy for him.

It's good for ladies, too, which is always fun.

If you decide not to go with the G-force, a G-spot vibe is also a fun general-purpose and P-spot toy.
04/07/2010
Contributor: Sir Sir
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Originally posted by Envy
Thanks for the reply!

I was looking at those others as well, and I admit I'm somewhat skepticle about Bob. I know it's a plug and some guys like it, but my bf says using his fingers, he still can't find his spot. It makes me think ... more
Actually, that one is very good, and since it's glass, it may be easier for him to insert, even the bulb. Glass is very good that way, it does not drag and it glides very easily.

I agree with Backseat Boohoo, though. And the info that ScottA gave you was good. You might want to look at some g-spot vibes, like he said, even if your partner is not interested in trying out vibrations - simply the shape of them may work well.
04/07/2010
Contributor: Envy Envy
Ah okay, thanks you guys! And I'm not sure what he can fit, maybe 2 fingers at the most? I'll talk with him over the suggestions, but thanks everyone!
04/09/2010
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
Great question Goth - I was considering this as a first toy for a friend of mine as well
04/18/2010
Contributor: Mr. & Mrs. Peg Mr. & Mrs. Peg
Thanks for the great review. I have been looking for a replacement for a rubber version of this that we have had for a while. Looks like I found it!
01/04/2011
Contributor: 0letitgrow 0letitgrow
I'd say start smaller... nothing worse than buying a toy and then it sitting unused because you aren't up for it yet.
01/05/2011
Contributor: SexSay SexSay
thanks for the review I will consider buying this in the future
02/08/2011
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
I recommend the g-play medium.
02/08/2011
Contributor: kfdarling1375 kfdarling1375
These are great suggestions. I am looking for a first time p spot toy too.
02/25/2011
Contributor: Brandonn Brandonn
no bigger then 1-1/4"-1-1/2" to start
02/02/2012
Contributor: Nice to Eat you Nice to Eat you
rigid may not be comfortable, you may want silicone to start
02/09/2012
Contributor: Vadim50 Vadim50
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Originally posted by Nice to Eat you
rigid may not be comfortable, you may want silicone to start
exactly
08/02/2012
Contributor: GingerSpice GingerSpice
great info guys
04/17/2013