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Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
No matter which plug I use, my body always pops it out when I'm having an orgasm during intercourse.

Is there any way to get that to stop happening?

Is this a pretty common occurrence for the rest of you who have worn a plug during sex?
03/26/2010
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Contributor: Red Red
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Originally posted by removedacnt
No matter which plug I use, my body always pops it out when I'm having an orgasm during intercourse.

Is there any way to get that to stop happening?

Is this a pretty common occurrence for the rest of you who have worn a plug during sex?
Yep. My ass, as well, is 'spitty' in the heat of the moment. You are not alone! I assume you have likely tried a variety of plugs that have all failed you?

I have an NJoy large, and it works like a charm. I used to use the love pacifier advanced, which has the same dimensions. The Nobessence Romp also stays put fairly well, but it sometimes feels 'pokey' in certain positions.

I have seen lots of people recommend the Tristan series of plugs (alternatively, tantus Ace style), with long necks to keep plugs in during sex. Doesn't work for me, but seems to for others.

In a whole different buttplug league, the A Bomb stays in place really well as well.

Good luck!
03/26/2010
Contributor: TitsMcScandal TitsMcScandal
I've never had an issue with my curved toy [love pacifier] but with my straight toys it does become an issue. So perhaps get a curved toy?
03/26/2010
Contributor: Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
I also have no issue when it's a curved toy but I know you had issues with the pure plug in general so...

I got nothin'.

Maybe the Bootie?
03/26/2010
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
I don't have a lot of issues with them coming out - I have noticed that the narrower the neck as compared to the flare, the better they stay in for me though.
03/26/2010
Contributor: Backseat Boohoo Backseat Boohoo
I'm not huge in to anal, but curvy plugs tend to stay in better for me. Position can also change things; maybe it's just because I have a luscious bum, but plugs seem to stay in when I'm on the bottom and my legs aren't up in the air.
03/26/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Long necks help the most I find.
03/26/2010
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
My body doesn't seem to care for the curved plugs. At least not the extremely firm ones. The long neck idea might work though. Thanks everyone!
03/27/2010
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
The Njoy is super for me, it seems for me anyway, a curved plug stays in better. The Tantus Ryder, though not as exciting also stays put.
The Jolly Jack also works staying in place. Most shorter plugs end up as flying missiles.... during orgasm; kinda awkward.
03/27/2010
Contributor: 00 00
I'm a very experienced anal player, but even still, I find that during the heat of the moment, often a smaller plug, or one with a short neck will 'pop' out or at least try to. Longer necked plugs and those that flare wider often remedy that problem for me, or a larger plug, which is not right for everyone, especially those that are rather new or less experienced in anal play. Also the material the plug is made of makes a big difference for some people.
03/27/2010
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
Liz2, I just recently had that problem with the Ryder. And the Njoy plugs were just not for me. I couldn't keep that one in no matter what. Thanks!

PinkPoppet, Thanks for that info. It's good to know that even the more experienced can have that problem.
03/27/2010