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I'm new to anal and need suggestions

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Contributor: pink chains pink chains
i'm very new to the whole anal world! my husband is very into it and to tell you all the trutruth i'm scared to death to let him do anything down there. lol due to i let him like 2 times and i just hurt and was to uncomfortable for me i'm looking for beads or something to try to make it less painful or any suggestions to help at all

thanks
08/26/2012
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Contributor: Tork48309 Tork48309
If it hurts, he's probably too excited to take his time. It should never hurt. I'd suggest some alone time to experiment, plus there's alot of first timer info on this site that could be really helpful.
08/26/2012
Contributor: pink chains pink chains
it's also really hard for me to relax because i only let him do it like 2 times a know i'm scared cause it really hurt me. i've been told there are easier postions to do it in also i guess but like i said i feel clueless about this
08/26/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Here's a thread from another EFer asking about the same thing, (included are a few links posted by ToyTimeTim), you should be able to find all the helpful suggestions there.
08/26/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
What Tork said. It shouldn't hurt, stretch yes, but pain, no. Tell your husband to slow down or NO MORE SEX. That should put the brakes on. Also, playing around with a butt plug by yourself will help you relax and get used to the idea of something in your butt. Good luck!
08/26/2012
Contributor: Tessa Taboo Tessa Taboo
The biggest thing that helped me was the DVD Jessica Drake's Guide to Wicked Sex: Anal. I can NOT even tell you how much better watching that DVD made me feel. It had so many helpful tips and tricks... it even opened up my husband to try out receiving anal! We watched it together and when we were done we were so anxious to try the things we had learned!

Also: You can never have too much lube
08/27/2012
Contributor: pink chains pink chains
thanks so much
08/30/2012