New to anal toy

New to anal toy

Kelley7788 Kelley7788
Me and my wife got me a prostate massage vibrator... Ive used her smaller and medium one.....2nite she is at work and i finally tried mine again....its kinda bigger not at "shaft" but the "head" looks kinda like a penis ..... Ive been reading allot bout not 2 force it and i wen slow and i got it....."sad she wasnt here" lol.... But anyway i was embarresed the 1st nite i got it cuz i cudnt do it.......is there any way to make it easier on me "for her" besides more ky?....any ideas wud be greatly appreciated..... Hf my kinky friends.....and btw its definitely a different feeling....im a strait male and this is my 1st week doin this....the thang was like $120 so i wanna learn to have fun with it.....and also thankin of gettin her a strap on cuz now i turned into a freak so any info or ideas/products on that would be awesum too ..... Thanks and everyone have a super merry xxxmas
12/16/2018
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Originally posted by Kelley7788
Me and my wife got me a prostate massage vibrator... Ive used her smaller and medium one.....2nite she is at work and i finally tried mine again....its kinda bigger not at "shaft" but the "head" looks kinda like a penis ..... Ive ...
Hello, dear Kelley!
Not sure if there is a question in your post

Making the prostate massage experience as smooth as possible is usually a no-brainer. You are absolutely right - you should take all the time in the world. And LOADS of lube - because there is no natural lubrication in your bum, and saliva is not nearly thick enough to soften the penetration.

If you want some inspiration, we have a cool guide with prostate massage positions - check it out right here.

About choosing a strap-on - I would definitely take some time here, as well. Pegging is a highly sensual and a very rewarding practice, but it needs a lot of warm up. You being new to anal sex makes pegging a kinda too cool endeavor - maybe, it'll be a smoother upgrade if you spend some more time playing around with prostate massagers with yourself or with your wife.

Best of luck
12/17/2018
Kinkykat8 Kinkykat8
Try to relax before hand, that will make insertion much easier. I like to give my husband a little massage before hand to help. Use plenty of lube and if you’re feeling resistance try going back and forth with more pressure each push. Once you get past the first little bit it becomes much easier. My husband was reluctant to try prostate play at first but now he can’t get enough of it! Have fun!
12/17/2018
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