Prostate stimulation

Contributor: happywaffle34 happywaffle34
My boyfriend wants to try prostate stimulation. What do I need and is this normal?!
01/19/2013
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Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Yes, it's normal. Many guys enjoy anal and prostate stimulation, and it doesn't mean he's gay or doesn't like you.

What you need depends on you as a couple. The only absolute requirement is lube. You can use fingers (a good way to start in any case) or toys. Gloves can be used if you're worried about mess or smell. Fingers are small, sensitive, and available, so I recommend starting with them if you're comfortable.

For toys you can use a prostate massager, buttplug, probe, vibrator, dildo, strap-on, whatever floats your boat. I'd advise buying toys together, because one of you might like one toy while it is too big/too real/not the right color for the other person. It may sound picky, but it's important that you're both comfortable with the toys to have the most fun.

Prostate play is easier and often feels better if you start off with him hard and excited. When he's excited his prostate is firm (so you can find it easier) and often more sensitive. Don't worry if he goes soft during prostate play. That happens, and it doesn't mean he isn't enjoying it. Adding in a bit of penis play will get him hard again if that's important to you as a couple.

Also don't worry about going for a "hands-free" orgasm. Some people can, some people can't, and worrying about it/trying for it is a good way to not have one.
01/19/2013
Contributor: happywaffle34 happywaffle34
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Originally posted by ScottA
Yes, it's normal. Many guys enjoy anal and prostate stimulation, and it doesn't mean he's gay or doesn't like you.

What you need depends on you as a couple. The only absolute requirement is lube. You can use fingers (a good way ... more
When he's excited his prostate is firm (so you can find it easier) and often more sensitive.

Wow I didn't know that! I will bring him to the website tomorrow so he can read this and look at the toys together! Thank you so much!
01/20/2013