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Contributor: Ech5305 Ech5305
I have a few prostate toys and I enjoy the vibrations but I'm not sure I'm using them right. I'm not getting the big Os that I'm reading about. Also I. Bought one and it was a lot bigger than I thought it would be. Any tips to help me get it in and enjoy it would be helpful. I've got lube and some anal desensitizing lubes.

Thanks
03/26/2020
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Contributor: Soundside46 Soundside46
What type of prostate toys are you using exactly? That would help me help you if I knew.
03/27/2020
Contributor: Leil@ Leil@
(EdenFantasys)
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Originally posted by Ech5305
I have a few prostate toys and I enjoy the vibrations but I'm not sure I'm using them right. I'm not getting the big Os that I'm reading about. Also I. Bought one and it was a lot bigger than I thought it would be. Any tips to help me ... more
Dear Ech5305!
I wouldn't recommend you use anal desensitizing lubes since they reduce sensitivity, therefore, you won't feel any pain which signalizes you're doing something wrong, and there is a risk of damaging yourself.

Please, specify what exactly toys you've already used. Maybe you need to try out different shapes and textures, maybe experimenting with various vibration intensities and patterns will help. to find the right position for prostate stimulation is also very important.

If you provide more details, I'll be able to give you more specific advice.

Also, the guide on how to choose the best prostate massager can be of huge help.
03/27/2020
Contributor: Ech5305 Ech5305
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Originally posted by Leil@
Dear Ech5305!
I wouldn't recommend you use anal desensitizing lubes since they reduce sensitivity, therefore, you won't feel any pain which signalizes you're doing something wrong, and there is a risk of damaging ... more
I've gotten the embrace tapered probe and the one that was biiver than I thought was Dr. Delightful P-Spot Massager.
03/27/2020
Contributor: Ech5305 Ech5305
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Originally posted by Soundside46
What type of prostate toys are you using exactly? That would help me help you if I knew.
I have the embrace tapered probe and I have Dr. Delightful P-Spot Massager
03/27/2020
Contributor: Soundside46 Soundside46
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Originally posted by Ech5305
I have the embrace tapered probe and I have Dr. Delightful P-Spot Massager
The Embrace looks closer to an Aneros style design. Try that one again, lots of water-based lube and do not use the vibrations. Once you get it in place contract the toy using a clinching kegel type of contraction and see if that hits your prostate. You should be able to move the toy, hands free, do this type of motion. Try different intensities of contraction and lengths of contraction and see what feels good to you and then expound from there.
03/28/2020
Contributor: MagneticDuke MagneticDuke
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Originally posted by Soundside46
The Embrace looks closer to an Aneros style design. Try that one again, lots of water-based lube and do not use the vibrations. Once you get it in place contract the toy using a clinching kegel type of contraction and see if that hits your ... more
Personally, I have better luck stimulating my prostate externally; rather than internally. Which is why I bought the rechargeable Hitachi-style wand; working your prostate from the outside is always another option (even if you have a bit louder of a motor to deal with). But as for internal stimulation... I can't get that to work myself with a P-spot Stir.

Edit: Accidentally hit the reply button instead of the general post button, whoops.
04/06/2020
Contributor: Mr.Pitt Mr.Pitt
What helps for me is to wait a while In between cumming. I waited two weeks recently and it was incredible. The longer I wait to cum the better it is. You should drink plenty of water I think that helps. Make the session last as long as possible. I have never used desensitizing lube. I don’t think it’s a good idea. Research anal lubes for the best. You will have to try different ones to see what works for you. There is a toy I have but I can’t remember the maker or name. It has 4 or 5 bullets. One anal, one on the perineum, maybe two, and one on top of the penis and one below the penis. It’s an anal cock ring basically. It’s the best thing I have tried so far. I also like glass because it has the least amount of drag and you don’t need tons of lube. Not everyone cums the same.
05/11/2020
Contributor: GrayFUN GrayFUN
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Originally posted by Ech5305
I have a few prostate toys and I enjoy the vibrations but I'm not sure I'm using them right. I'm not getting the big Os that I'm reading about. Also I. Bought one and it was a lot bigger than I thought it would be. Any tips to help me ... more
I am very anti anal desensitizer, you need to know if it hurts that means you need to take it slowly. Try some different lubes, so far Jo h2o and wicked are the best water based lubes that I've tried. Other than that take it slowly start with some smaller probes and plugs.
05/11/2020