I don't like to repeat my posts but it seems we have a wave of newcomers to this very fine subject. This toy isn't too slim it's just wrong as it will not really be a proper exercise tool for the sphincter muscle. It barely widens it so the muscle will get accommodated very quickly, if you pull it out there will be very mild if any sensation at all. It has no veins, ridges or bumps so it will barely stimulate the nerve endings in your anus area. It is not curved so it will not hit your g-spot unless you twist and angle it in weird ways. I'm recommending the toys listed below, all tried myself and with my girls so. I hope it will help.

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I guess I can give some advice about first-time products in this specific area. I'm a big fan for life-like materials and have been using them from the start, I have to say that with enough care and hygiene there is no need for the "bacterial" paranoia you might encounter here.

So that's the list of products I'd personally recommend:

This was the first product we have bought together with my Ex-Wife, in my opinion the best start but you grow out quickly:
Blush UR3 anal starter – probe

The silicone alternative is:
Sedeux Please

To grow up I'd suggest:
Pure Skin Player jr

The silicone alternative is:
VIP Super Soft

For Butt Plugs:

The best training of all times (after you grow out of the beginners toys):
Triple Ripple

Best Butt Plug (I guess many will agree):
Ryder

And finally my personal favorite among plugs:
Gapers Organic

Generally speaking that's my product advice. For lubes you have to look for yourself what suits you more. Just don't use silicone lube on silicone toys, it really kills them. The rest as usual, hygiene, foreplay, foreplay, lube -> and plenty of fun

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