I kept hearing about how pleasurable it could be and all that. It wasn't until my husband that I had a partner that I trusted to stop if I became uncomfortable while playing with him, and it wasn't until I started hanging out here that I got comfortable with trying out plugs and the like myself.

My first time was anal rape. It hurt like you wouldn't believe. But my ex husband really liked it, so I was willing to give it a go. My hubby now is the one I trust to do this with. He is a gentle man and will honor me if I ask him to stop or if there is any pain or if I'm not ready for it.

The first time I ever played around down there was soon after I hit puberty (around 11), but I think that was mainly just exploring my body rather than really being sexual. I became interested in trying anal toys and anal sex after joining EF and reading some of the reviews and posts here.

Basically i read a story that made me want to try it and went from their I have a blog post all about the journey on my blog: link

My first serious relationship. My ex was into it, and I was all about seeing what it was all about. He's still the only person I've ever had full anal sex with after 6 years. I'm hoping to change that in the very near future (next few weeks).

I always felt like I needed back door stimulation - like something was missing or being neglected - but I had to get over the taboo (or more aptly, embrace it!). At MY urging, my husband and I tried it, but with unsuccessful results. (We didn't know what the hell we were doing - that was before Internet!) Many years went by and still I knew I wanted anal sex. So I started playing with objects. Eventually I bought a butt plug...and found euphoria. I also found a great how-to video online by Tristan Taoramino - "The Expert Guide to Anal Sex" (download the whole thing, not just a clip - the whole series is both educational and arousing). I used the video, along with the surprise introduction to my butt plug , to re-engage my husband and satisfy my long-held fantasy. I'm so incredibly glad I did!

It started with the slip of a finger and evolved from there!

have always been turned on by watching anal, and decided to try out with a dildo. then found out that my fingers did just as well!

I'd been clitorally masturbating since early middle school, but by the end of middle school/beginning of high school, I wanted/craved something inside me. I wanted to save my hymen for a boy* so it wasn't long before I figured out the 'other hole' worked pretty darn well.

*When I got around to that, turns out I didn't really have much of a hymen anyway. Oh well, I'm still glad I woke up to anal as early as I did.

I've heard a lot of "third time is the charm", but for me personally, it was completely untrue. I tried it many times (usually having been pressured to do so), and for a long time, I hated it until I got with my current partner.

Turns out I just needed someone who would treat my bum right to make it enjoyable, and now I almost crave it sometimes.

My first anal experience was extremely painful, alcohol was involved and the only lube was saliva, and brute force. I swore off anal for quite awhile but discovered the joy of anal by myself with plugs and dils.
I now totally enjoy anal, getting it as well as giving it with a strap-on. I usually masturbate with a butt plug in place, for me it is just so....pleasurable.
A partner that is sensitive to your body is certainly a plus.

I was curious about it.